There are many trolls on this site, but there's one that always keeps coming back and if I point out that he has become boring, he tells me that I'm fat, ugly, and a new one, "lesser woman". 😂
Anyway, I showed my best friend his post and his replies to me and at a moment she said "He still hasn't figured it out that people date in their own league".
P. S.: When I think of "league", I include personality/intelligence and looks too.
Most Helpful Guy
No. Men often due to women's inflated ego date down. Guys who work out regular, and make more money than girls often have to settle for skinny fat girls who make less money on them.
On the other hand women often date men way above their league but they think they are in the same league because many women today are full of themselves due to social media.
A 5/10 now thinks she's a 8/10 because her friend and males on social media tell her how hot she is.
She meets a man who is actual an 8/10 and he may date her for a while but chances he'll actual keep her around long term is most likely not going to happen unless she is something special.
Women date upward
Men date downward
The negative effect of this for women is the creation of the alpha widow
Most Helpful Girl
I think they usually do, but you'll sometimes see couples who shock you. Usually I don't care. If people like each other, they should be together. What I find annoying is when a guy or girl will ignore people except for just the hot ones, but they aren't that special to begin with and yet they complain that they can't get someone.
I know someone in real life like that. He isn't ugly, but he isn't hot either, and he also has some extra weight. Overall he is a good guy. He can get along with most people. He is good at charming people if he makes them angry. He also has plenty of women who want him. However, he has extremely high standards. He will only date very beautiful women. A friend of mine likes him, and she tried getting me to set them up. He refused to date her though because she isn't pretty enough, and she apparently has 'thunder thighs.'
He has never ever had a serious relationship. He spends all his time complaining about how women don't like him, and that nice guys finish last. I've pointed out how many women do want him, and at the beginning of our friendship, I wanted him too. None of us are good enough for him though.1