I'm sorry but it seems like you already know what to do. I mean it's common sense like say you had a friend in your position same issue and everything would you tel them to stay in something they so clearly hate or to break it off. It's normal that you would say break It off and that's clearly what you should do at this point. Normally I would say sit him down and talk to him face to face, but from what it seems you've talked to him plenty already and he's not going to change a dam thing, so the only option you have is to leave him because you're clearly not happy in the relationship and he's clearly not going to change. I say break it off take some time to yourself then when your ready get back out there and find someone you are or can be happy with. Well that's my two cents in it; I wish you luck in life and that you find happiness in yourself and In possibly a new man. Good luck dear.
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Yeah move on. He obviously isn't that interested in you.
I'm sure the way you feel about him is hurt more then it is love. Someone who doesn't make the effort to contact you or keep a decent conversation flowing with you does not care about you at all. He DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU AT ALL.
As much as it may hurt to see him with someone else, you'd find someone so much better (then he is). Whoever this new guy is would go out of his way to make you happy, you wouldn't need to ask him to
Why be withs someone who doesn't treat you as nice as you do them? You're settling for less solely because you'e been together for two years. Yes two years in your teens can be a while, however you will realize its not that long. If you've expressed your feelings of hurt to him and he still isn't exactly changing then you need to change- aka leave him because if you stay you're basically saying you deserve to be treated like shit.
He obviously doesn't care about you and probably is cheating. Just break up. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years as well. He's met my family and we even work together. Our lives have been integrated and I love him to pieces but I'm also not stupid. If he started treating me like trash I'd leave him. I'm worth a lot more than that.
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I think you know the answer which is the one you don't want to hear.
Get rid of his ass. He's very disrespectful and do you really want to continue to live like this? Set yourself free.just break up. why do you even put up with this shit? there are guys out there who won´t make you feel like shit...
Afraid of seeing him with someone else? Why? That means you got out of the situation and he is now the burden of someone else.
You deserve better. It's his loss and people like that don't realize what they had until they're gone. You'll find someone who puts in a lot more effort than he does.
Leave him. Someone else will treat you a lot better and you will look back and wonder why you put up with it for so long.
While you put up with it you are sending him the message that his behavior is ok, which it isn't.Ok simple answer.. If your not happy move on life is to short to waste being unhappy
Dump him. Relations are based on equality, not dominance.
If he makes you feel like shit and treats you like shit there's no reason to stay.
Maybe he has something in his heart and wants you to do it for him
You need to dump him and find someone who will treat you better.
Don't try to find handsome guys. This is probably what you do. Try to find guys who will make you happy.
He isn't interested in you anymore best thing for you to do is move on
What starts the arguments?
I would just dump him.
hot guys... and you choose them.
leave him
Reciprocate.
Break up
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