I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. So it is really hard to decide whether to leave him or not because I love him. He makes me cry at least 3 times a week due to the way he speaks to me, treats me for example i could text him and he would ignore it for hours and so id ring him and he would say I'll ring you back and never does. He never texts or rings me I have to ring and text him. If I didn't we wouldn't talk. I have to ask him to come and see me he never offers. And when we argue he ignores me or gives me effortless replies. I could write him a massive paragraph and he would reply with something like "ok" "whatever" or "cool" it really upsets me and all he does when I cry is tell me where to go. Then at the end of it all he says he's sorry and that he will change and before you no it he does the same thing again. Over and over. I don't no what to do?
I'm sorry but it seems like you already know what to do. I mean it's common sense like say you had a friend in your position same issue and everything would you tel them to stay in something they so clearly hate or to break it off. It's normal that you would say break It off and that's clearly what you should do at this point. Normally I would say sit him down and talk to him face to face, but from what it seems you've talked to him plenty already and he's not going to change a dam thing, so the only option you have is to leave him because you're clearly not happy in the relationship and he's clearly not going to change. I say break it off take some time to yourself then when your ready get back out there and find someone you are or can be happy with. Well that's my two cents in it; I wish you luck in life and that you find happiness in yourself and In possibly a new man. Good luck dear.
I'm sure the way you feel about him is hurt more then it is love. Someone who doesn't make the effort to contact you or keep a decent conversation flowing with you does not care about you at all. He DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU AT ALL.
As much as it may hurt to see him with someone else, you'd find someone so much better (then he is). Whoever this new guy is would go out of his way to make you happy, you wouldn't need to ask him to
Why be withs someone who doesn't treat you as nice as you do them? You're settling for less solely because you'e been together for two years. Yes two years in your teens can be a while, however you will realize its not that long. If you've expressed your feelings of hurt to him and he still isn't exactly changing then you need to change- aka leave him because if you stay you're basically saying you deserve to be treated like shit.
He obviously doesn't care about you and probably is cheating. Just break up. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years as well. He's met my family and we even work together. Our lives have been integrated and I love him to pieces but I'm also not stupid. If he started treating me like trash I'd leave him. I'm worth a lot more than that.
Leave him. Someone else will treat you a lot better and you will look back and wonder why you put up with it for so long. While you put up with it you are sending him the message that his behavior is ok, which it isn't.
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