I've been seeing this guy for over two months. We started sleeping together about 2 weeks ago. Anyway, about a month into dating, he said he'd deleted the app. Now, I still have the app on my phone but I never use it and forget its there because I'm dating him. He's never asked me if I still have it, and even if he did, I wouldn't deny it. Anyway, the other day I logged in to change some settings on my profile and hide my profile card from being seen, when I noticed his profile bio has changed and still logs his location. We've never raised exclusivity, but we're really close and have feelings for each other so I'm just letting things progress organically. He's also not the cheating type, and neither am I.
I've also supported him through some serious crap recently, so this comes as a bit of a blow. Should I raise this with him? And why did he lie to me?
Most Helpful Guy
i think the fact that he lied about it is a problem. lying is always a problem and when the issue at hands seems to suggest that he's still looking for other people that is even more problematic.
now since you guys aren't exclusive i think it's fine for him to be still looking around but the lying about his activity on Tinder is not cool5
Most Helpful Girl
As you said it's not exclusive so why are you treating it like it is? but will he ever want it to be exclusive? but it's far too early to be asking that right now, if he's sleeping with other women then he's aloud to because he isn't in a relationship with you but honestly id be careful he may just want sex with you and that's it, honesty these "dating sites" are full of losers, pervs, weirdos and psycos, i've never had good experiences on them, people i know never have, a girl i'm friends with on FB who i get along with she went out with a guy from Plenty Of Fish and it turned out he was a complete psycopath, he was a hacker too which he failed to ever mention, he hacked into her email and took over it knowing she had photos of family on it she wanted to get from it so she had to just forget it and create a new email, she had to wipe all her computer because well... how else could he of got into her email than thorugh her computer? although he may of just guessed the security questions but stll... you never know... he also stalked her, kept creating new accounts on FB to stalk her, put photos of them both together on FB and on Plenty Of Fish saying she's his girlfriend when he doesn't care at all... doing it just to taunt her because he knew she kinda had feelings for him, he played it real well for while. I've also almost got into trouble because of a guy i met on Tagged , we were just friend online and that's it but one day he started things up and called the cops making something i said out like t was 100 times worse than it was. These sites are just full of weirdos and people just wanting to hook-up, they aren't safe at all so if you contnue to use them be really really careful.0