My boyfriend says he's always been oblivious to when a girl is flirting with him, or likes him, so I'm just curious if this is quite common?
In fact, he said he had no idea I liked him until I told him!
He's a very friendly guy, and has lots of friends who are women. He says he comes across as quite effeminate, which I privately agree to some extent but that doesn't make me love him less. I like him for who he is and wouldn't change anything... ironically, he's a very unromantic boyfriend though! :)
Most Helpful Guy
Sometimes, yes. It is funny how a lot girls seem to think we are mind readers and/or expert clue decoders. Guys are dumb! We are more direct and don't pick up on subtle hints like you think we should. Not only that, but a lot of women are very fickle with their emotions and what they actually want aren't always clear anyway. This is why open and honest communication is so important.2
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Yeah they are oblivious af! Not that I blame them, most of the girls are naturally flirty and overly friendly so it can be misunderstood.0