I thought things were going well with this girl. I've learned a lot in my past to not be too clingy, how to flirt, be funny, etc...and I thought I was doing well with this girl. We got coffee and we went on a date.
After that, though, she started to give me the run around.
Worst, it took me a while before I realized it.
I'm a little deflated right now because I honestly don't know of any missteps I made and even if there were missteps, they were minor. My confidence is shot because I don't know what I can improve now and I really liked this girl.
Can anyone help here?
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You went for coffee... That's what "friends" do. You probably said too much on the date that you went to, something that "disqualified" you. It's tricky so you have to watch what you say. The best thing to do is to say as less as possible. For many women if it's too easy something is wrong, and if it makes sense it doesn't work... It happens sometimes because many women don't understand logic. They go by fantasy and the heat of the moment. Don't chase her, have more respect for yourself. Start dating other women, don't be friends with her, and don't be there for her. Let her chase you. If she doesn't try to get in touch with you after a while then you pretty much have your answer on how much she wants you.1
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