Guys committing suicide?

[Anonymous]

How would you feel if a guy who had trouble getting a girlfriend asked you out, and you knew it but you rejected him anyway so he tried to kill himself?

[Pyramid_Palace]

I'd assume he had underlying, unresolved. issues. A person doesn't end their own life due to ONE trigger. They attempt suicide after suffering from long-term depression , and deep- rooted emotional pain which is unresolved.

I'd have a profound compassion towards him, cos people who commit suicide don't really want to end their own life, they want to put an end to their emotional suffering and pain.

His threat wouldn't make me change my mind about dating him, but I'd certainly reach out a hand of friendship to him by striving to help him to the best of my ability. I'd also encourage him to seek professional help. I'd never turn my back on someone who is " crying" for help

[Maypai]

He obviously has a lot more issues than not getting a girlfriend. Usually if someone commits suicide after a rejection, that was the straw that broke the camel's back. I wouldn't even be in a relationship with someone who is that emotionally unstable. I have my ups and downs and usually people who are dark/struggling tend to push me over the edge.

[TiffyPuff]

Sorry he's dead, but that isn't my problem. He isn't owed a sympathy date or relationship. He should fix his depression before trying to date, it's unfair for him to thrust his baggage onto other people or to guilt trip a girl into a date. It's just manipulative and selfish.

[Incinerary]

I pretty much agree with what all the girls have said so far. If a girl asked me out, I knew she has trouble getting a girlfriend, and then she kills herself, not my problem. While it would be sad, at the same time I wouldn't really care and I would regret nothing. I shouldn't be forced into a relationship like that. Nobody should. I've been turned down well over a dozen times, you don't see me acting like a child. It's part of life. Get used to it.

[GinNJuice]

men kill themselves more commonly than women.

women attempt" for attention. men do it and after amrriage, rate gores up 4 times more

[Anonymous]

I would be very sad, but I wouldn't regret my decision. I'd never reject someone cruelly, but you can't date someone you're not attracted to, it's not fair to either person involved. I dispute the 'so' in your premise here too; maybe it would be a catylist, but a suicide attempt wouldn't result purely from me rejecting someone, it would be down to various problems relating to his mental health and life situation generally

[Elarra]

I'd feel like he had deeper issues than the one time I rejected him. I'd feel bad that he felt that he had to go that route, but I wouldn't be blaming myself.

[fauchelevent]

I would feel bad that he was upset and going through that but at the same time, I wouldn't feel like it was my fault, I had no obligation to go out with him and I did not force him to try that.

[Blonde401]

You saying using suicide as a way to guilt someone into getting into a relationship is ok there? Cause it's not.

[KirstyW]

I would feel sad, but not guilty. There were clearly a lot of issues that he needed to deal with.

[Izumiblu]

Id be thankful that i said no and immediately regret that i ever had contact with him.

[Anonymous]

Sounds harsh but why would that be my fault? I'd not be the only one rejecting them. And you can't stay with someone out of pity.

[Ayra_Frey]

I wouldn't feel bad at all. He can't shove the blame on me for rejecting him. It is his choice. Saying yes to someone you don't like, is stupid anyway

[Stevan7]

Girls have nothing to do with it, guy can't even handle emotions.

[samasky]

I'll try to stop him from killing He's self and try to give him some advices

[writing_essays]

I wouldn't care. That is his responsibility.

[TacosRAwesome]

Well, slightly bad but it's not really my problem.

[Anonymous]

That's his problem at that point, not her's.

[Blanquino]

I would tell him the truth no matter what.

[MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah]

Sad. but def not her problem

[taytay10133]

i would be so sad

[Autumn-Bunny]

Sad.

[Adigelunar]

ı would feel so sad