You each should have your own individual lives. It is unhealthy to spend ALL of you time with your significant other. It is normal to feel a little sad or disappointed when you miss your significant other and they have plans to spend time with friends. If that happens, try to find something to do like spending time with YOUR. friends. When the two of you are alone together do you feel like he still acts the same way toward you that he used to? If you always initiate phone calls or texts, don't call/text him for a day or two and see what happens. If he doesn't make the effort to call/text, you should discuss that with him. I wouldn't assume that he has found someone else. Unfortunately, sometimes us guys aren't very good at making our girlfriend feel special. Maybe that is something he needs to work on.
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:) should be equaled till u and him state that u love each other
That time he have to devote more time to u 65% and 35% to his friends.
But if u 2 didn't confess love yet
Anything within 55% range for either is good and he is a decent guy.
If u 2 moved in together it should be 70%+
If engaged
80%+
If married u r the top priority 95%
If u have a child 101%
If u r pregnant even f u not married but he loves u 120% fuck even quoting jobs or changing life decisions for ur sake is right.
I've been in the shoes of a taken man/woman's friends, and it's terrible being left alone and being the 3rd wheel. I think your boyfriend is a really good friend and might be trying to be a good boyfriend but slowly taking one step at a time. If you're really insecure, YOU try talking to him and making plans.
He may just be afraid of losing his friends if he spends all his time with you but I would talk to him. How much time do you spend together?
I simply have to ask, just why the hell are you wasting your time with this fucking A******?
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That all depends on how close they are to their friends and such. Personally, I'd care more for my girl, but that's also cause I've never had a lasting friendship with someone where we were like bros and hung out all the time and such. I believe that people in relationships should kinda split their attention equally between their friends and their spouse
It depends how long you been together and if it is a serious relationship or not. Regardless, I'm most situation you should be his priority equal if not greater to his friend. You shouldn't have to feel like you have to compete to get his attention. That is where you should ask him what are you to him.
it tends to be the smartest thing to do, if you make your girlfriend your all, once you break up you have no one. if you keep your friends once you break up you can rely on them to help.
doesn't mean he's gonna break up or is looking for someone else, just means he's healthy lolNope. Easy answer. The boyfriend should care more for their girlfriend. After all you are the ones that give us lad attention and love. And we have to show it back just as much
No he hasn't found someone else. Why did you even go that far? Insecurity? Look, nobody is special here. His friends are as special as you. I suggest that when he goes out with his friends he should take you with him.
He shouldn't be forced to choose, but there should be balance
No your boyfriend should care more about you, If i had a girlfriend she would be my world , i would not be spending more time with friends than my girlfriend.
yes, but a husband should care more for his wife than his pals
just make some common interests between you. like travelling or any sports or something like that... so that u two can spend lot of time together
I'd talk to him first and if he didn't change I'd leave him he could date his friends instead.
you should talk to him or break up 😕 a man's girlfriend is the most important person and that is how it should be
What an asshole. He can't hang out with his friends more than his girlfriend...
Nope
Same thing can be said about females too
I don't value my friends over my loverdump him. get it over with before the relationship starts turning to shit, because if this is how he's treating you, it will.
He's not a real boyfriend leave him he should give you more attention
he doesn't have his priorities in order in my opinion..
Pardon my french but, "Bros before hoes."
girls come and go, but friends are forever
No. It should be equal.
Whoever is closest to them at the time
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