Should I believe my boyfriend or my friends?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months now and I really like him:) every morning he either texts, or calls, me saying good morning and then calls me babe, beautiful and other names like that:). He just makes me feel so special and loved and everyday he tells me he loves me(more than once) and I love him too:). He doesn't care about what other people think, for example: he will tell me he loves me during school, we will hold hands in school, and doesn't care if we kiss and other people see, and stuff like that:). And even at dances even if he's with his guy-friends he will do things like pick me up, put his arms around me, and even kiss me:). The problem is that my best friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend, and doesn't think we should be going out cause she likes him)tells e things like he checks out other girls, stuff like that. And it just makes me really upset:(. And my other best friend(that also thinks that we shouldn't be going out) says the same. I have asked my boyfriend abut this stuff before but he says its not true. Although how can I be sure? I want to believe him but the thing is that he used to a sorta player and I only have to classes with him. I want to believe him but I'm still not sure what should I do?

[jujujings]

Your friends maybe jealous of how happy you are with this guy. I mean a lot of girls would be thrilled to have someone tell them that they are beautiful and to be loving all the time. You are a lucky girl. I wouldn't debate your friends in one ear and out the other. Unless you see him doing something then what are you going to confront him with or for? Even if he were to check out other girls you will find that is both a guy and a girl thing. If he was leering at people in front of you you would need to tell him how you feel but he's not doing that, right? He's also not giving his phone number out and he's not pretending not to be with you, so let it go. Be happy and enjoy your relationship. Just trust him and know that he loves you. IAlso, you said that "he used to be" then you don't reallybelieve what they are saying to you.

[Asker]

Now that you mention it your right, my friend my be jealous cause she used to go out with my boyfriend(only for 1 day) and said she was totally over him but I don't think she is

[jojofinn]

I would just trust your boyfriend and see how it go's. My former best friend told me that I should break up with my boyfriend because he was messing around with other girls. So I did, Then I found out that she just wanted me to break up with him so she could go out with him, as you can gess we are no longer friends. :( Just try trusting your boyfriend.

[temptationfalls]

Don't be too worried about it. If he's doing all that then he's a good guy and has real feelings for you. About the checking out other girls, it's what guys do. All guys will ALWAYS check out other girls unless they're gay (in that case they check out other guys). It's one of the things with having the part down there. Relax.

[moraff12]

If he treats you like that, garunteed he is in love.

No doubt about it.

No matter how big a player a guy is at one time in his life, there will always one special girl that will be able to tame him.

Don't Worry