For some reason I always attract the bad boys and they are attracted to me. I look the party type but then they get to know me and I guess it's frustrating to them that I live at home, have never dated, and am a super nerd, pre-med. I guess their intentions are just flings or whatever but they are such good friends and although I'm innocent, I'm clever, and we have such great conversations...but then although they are kind to me and sweet (as well as their friends), they just distant away. Yet, these are the type of guys I keep falling for too.
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Commonly, men in your age group have a one-track mind. That one track is sex, and if they don't think they can get it from you they will probably give up early. Not all guys are like this, but many of them are, especially 'bad boys.' You're doing well to be where you are right now, don't compromise yourself and your goals to try to land a jerk who will probably run off after he becomes bored with you. There are many men who would appreciate a young woman of your competence and ambition.
So in summary the answer is: yes. You can be too pure and innocent to get close to, because most guys just want to get close to sleep with you. You'll find that the men who do sincerely try to get close to you (as you are) will be the ones who actually desire you in an honorable way.
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