on Thursday my boyfriend and I had a small spat.
he texted me and kinda snapped at me for something I had done.
I responded back with " chock it up to another one of my screw ups. Sorry won't happen again. Talk to you later".
after that I felt bad, so about an hour later I texted back . Said sorry and asked if he was still mad... No response...so another hour or so after that I texted back " I'll take that as a yes. OK. Here's what we will do. You take some time to cool off and we will both get some rest. Then you can text me tomorrow" ( in his first message he had said he would let me know about a meeting the following week "tomorrow".
OK. Friday ... Nothing.
now I know he is kind of bad about texting or being someplace when he says he will. But he has a lot
on his shoulders right now. And he is very shy and doesn't like to communicate some times.
in the past he seems to get a little irritated if I I try to get a hold of him
when he is upset. so I figured it best to leave him be for awhile.
even tough we a kinda growling at each other right now, his is a very good guy and we love each other a lot.
should I continue to wait and see what he does. Or should I try to contact him?
someone else opened it and read it and I know it really imbarested him.
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It depends on what you did. If it was small and something he would have gotten over by now, then it is the "chock up to another screw up..." comment, and you should be able to CALL him by now.
If it was something big and something he might now be over yet, then don't because the "chock it up..." comment really hurt him, in this case don't do anything, stop texting him, don't call him, wait for him because he needs some time alone with his thoughts.
I say call, because too much can go wrong through text, plus you are probably looking to apologize if you messed up, so you need it to be sincere.
Don't worry, if you two truly love each other everything will be fine, just don't make him feel like he is pressured into forgiving you or making a decision.1