Lonely guy needs girl advice?

I am a 25 year old virgin and never go out to meet women because this horrible economy means I must always be working. I am tired of being alone and depressed and sometimes I get really upset. I am a kind person and a good guy, and I can't take this anymore. I have never had a serious Girlfriend and I haven't been on a date in years. I work out and am an athletic guy, fairly good looking too. Please ladies, give me some advice, I'm dying here. I am so lonely I sometimes go to sleep with my stuffed animals. Sad, I know but true :(


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well for starters sitting around doing nothing will get you no where. You say you work a lot that's OK, almost every job has female co workers so there's a start. If all of your female co workers are taken don't worry they have friends who are more than likely single, and if you don't know your female co workers then simple solution get to know them. If that doesn't work then you can always do online dating.

    I know the economy sucks but let's be realistic, even if it was thriving I am willing to bet you would still be single, and the reason is because your not even attempting.

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What Girls Said 5

  • How busy are you? If you can, try to go out sometimes. Unfortunately, many girls you will meet in clubs will be intoxicated and furthermore you may end up with someone really unfortunate. If you can, maybe go to coffee shops, wear something handsome and go find a girl sitting alone or with other girls and go and talk with her. There aren't really many out of work chances once you are in this situation. Additionally, and unfortunately you are really the only person who can facilitate yourself finding a girl. The other option is to seek out collegues, male and female and try to organise a party or occasion with them, where people from outside of work can be invited. Finally, you can try dating sites, they sometimes work or ask people to match you up, and try some friend organised blind dates.

    Or send me heaps, and heaps on money, and I may come over there to visit you. :P

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    • Lol thanks for your honest answer. I could send you an amazon.com giftcard if you want, lol. You seem like a really sweet and genuine Goddess.

    • Hahaha... I unfortunately have the kind of work that permits such ideas to reside in humour and imagination.

      Thankyou so much though for such nice words, and geniunely offering me a gift. ;) Some girl will be lucky to have you. ^^

  • Just because the economy sucks doesn't mean anything you need to live your life to the fullest. go out once a week and meet new girls I'm sure there's someone you could loose your virginity too. Or if your not looking for a one night stand just talk to a girl and get to know her and don't be affraid to get her number. A girl wants confidence not a shy inconfident guy, and if your too ashamed to tell her your a virgin go online and read up on ways to please the women your haveing sex with. Or just ask on here how women like it.

    i would for sure give you advice :)

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  • don't worry about still being a virgin. Girls should not judge you on that fact alone, but on the fact that like you said, you are a good guy. Just look around, try to see if you can find old friends and talk to them. talk to new friends and tell them you are single and see if they know of any girls who are also single. Hopefully you can meet their girlfriends who are single and might want a relationship. I hope that helped. good luck

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  • hang out with some of your friends.. anything to get your mind off it.. or you can do something make yourself look HOT...and put yourself out there. (not like a plyer...we don't need anymore of those)..maybe have one of your guy friends be your wingman.

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  • i know a few guys like you. my boyfriend seems to have nothing but friends just like you. there all pretty good looking, sweet guys. they just really needed help find a way to meet girls and figuring out how to talk to them. I've been helping them out a little. showing them bars they can go to and helping them just talk to girls. maybe that's all you need is a good wing man to help you out of your funk.

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What Guys Said 4

  • See if you get any ideas from this thread? >>> link

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  • I feel you, I'm 22 and never had a girlfriend, always been single, love just comes to girls, us guys have to fight tooth and nail for it

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  • I hate how it's okay for girls to need or want a guy to validate their existence, but not okay for a guy to need or want a girl to validate their existence

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  • Hey man, god I ...really can't related but jesus I can feel your pain. My philosophy is that there is at least one perfect match for everyone out there, and al you have to do is take a chance to find her. Just try to take a little bit of your back and just relax. Believe me, you'll find one.

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