Girls, no Girl likes me?

[Anonymous]

I feel lonely and I really want a gf! I do anything and everything to try and get a gf, but I always have failed. I have changed everything about myself, new clothes, going to the gym, new colognes, new diet, new friends, frequent hair cuts. What do I do? I feel horrible, that I can't get anywhere with any girl, why is this? I have taken every possible advice from everybody and acted upon it. Why me? Why I can't get anywhere? I really strive to do my best in getting a girl? Why does this have to happen to me? I'm a good guy, and I have a good personality, I do things and never expect anything in return, if someone's in trouble or needs my help, I would go completely out of my way to help that person. I need help, can someone please help me? I really need help :(

[omeglemissy69]

Well it's definitely not easy at times. I guess we just belong to an unlucky group. However word of advice: Don't change yourself for ANYONE other than YOURSELF. You will be hurt in the process otherwise and lose yourself. you don't have to follow a norm. We are not clones and we are not the people walking around like in advertisements. If you want to change do it for yourself because you want to. Someone right will come along. Temporarily or permanently. Till then don't feel bad about yourself, create something instead, write a book, draw, play sports for fun, learn a new language or to dance, make sure you grow, don't feel bad. Shit happens unfortunately, but at the end of the day you will find someone who is just for you. Don't worry. Don't look. Relax. Make friends. Travel. Gather a few pen pals. Be a warrior not a worrier

[Asker]

I really do, I'm trying to grow everyday and I will never change for someone else, this is me, and I'm not changing me for anyone, Im just trying to better myself, but at the same time I'm really struggling, I'm struggling being alone, with no girl in my life

[RationalLioness]

You've said everything about how attractive you are, if you're confident, and what you do when you approach girls.

Are you one of those guys that expect women to walk up to you? Not many women will do that though there are some who will.

[Asker]

I started a conversation with two two women today

[RationalLioness]

Good for you.

[Asker]

Yeah but I didn't get anywhere

[Asker]

Not really good

[RationalLioness]

It doesn't matter. Those conversations would have never happened if you didn't initiate them. First steps. :D

[Asker]

Just wished I could get somewhere with a conversation

[cheonsongyi]

They just can't see how great you are yet. :)

[Asker]

How, it's soo obvious, who I am

[cheonsongyi]

Well, that keeps you away from girls who aren't Miss Right, so count it a blessing in disguise.

[Asker]

Thanks, that's a really nice way to look at it

[cheonsongyi]

Remember you are a great guy and God is protecting you from sluts and gold-diggers. :)

[Asker]

Thank you! Soo much

[Redlily78]

What zodiac are you?

[Asker]

I'm an Aquarius :/

[Redlily78]

Aquarius are nice people. Smart and like to debate. Don't be too over powering. Be aware of your sensitivity towards others. I had a male friend and he is an Aquarius. I kept telling him he needs to be more sensitive. My brother is one too. I fought too much with them. I'm a Leo. You need air signs like libra and gemini.

[Asker]

But I am more sensitive towards others, I really care how a person feels.

[Redlily78]

That's good. Don't act too wimpy.

[Asker]

In wimpy alone, but in public and around people never, it's not fair