Is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy to hangout?

I feel like people are still conventional and tend to think that a girl asking a guy on a date is wrong. I, however, believe that it's perfectly acceptable to ask a guy to hangout. Hell, if I see a cute guy, I'm not afraid to go and ask for his number, but that's just me. Anyhow, I was wondering what everyone else's opinion on this issue is?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Since he responds to your texts and conversation, that's an indication he might be interested. Try and ask more prying questions. Find out what he's into and see if you have something in common, something like common food interests or sports or something. If you find things in common suggest future plans, for example, I recently met a girl who was into golf as am I and she suggested, "We should go golfing sometime." I agreed and we went to the driving range the other day and had a blast. So find something in common and say "We should do that together sometime" hopefully he'll get the hint. If he doesn't want to, then at least you have your answer as to whether or not he's into you without feeling uncomfortable about asking. Hope that helps.

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    • we both have going to clubs/bars in common and he did say he was interested in going with me sometime. I'm just not feeling the way he's texting me...it seems like it's almost a chore to him and I understand that he may be busy, may not like texting, etc. but the least he could do is show a little bit more interest.

What Guys Said 7

  • Nothing wrong, except that some men (they will come here soon) feel threatened by women who don't mind chasing cute guys, perhaps because they figure you'll be able to get someone better than them if things go wrong. So, it is RIGHT and MORALLY OK, but some guys feel threatened by it. Most of them are misogynists.

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  • The only people who think it's wrong for a girl to ask out a guy are girls who think that they have to lure a guy into ask them out.

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  • It's hard to know the true emotions of a text, which is why I always like to call. I understand it's different from your perspective. He may just not like texting, some guys don't. A few of my friends hate texting. I say try to get him to the bar/club this weekend. But call him on the phone that way you can actually hear the emotion in his voice. Since it seems like you 2 are at least friends you shouldn't feel weird about calling. The conversation doesn't have to be long. After some quick chit-chat say something like, "I'm thinking of going to (whatever bar you both like) Saturday, you wanna come?" If yes, cool for you or if no, then it's his loss.

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  • Nothing wrong with a girl asking out a guy..In fact I find it very flattering if a girl takes the initiative and asks me out. It can take a lot of pressure off sometimes and make me feel even more attracted to her. So if he's giving you hints that he's interested by all means go for it.

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    • problem is, I can't tell if he's interested or not. I always have to text first/initiate the conversation, but he'll always respond. the answers are just straight up though, no fillers and he doesn't really try to keep the conversation flowing. I'm pretty sure he's not interested in me, but what the hell...i've got nothing to love.

  • No, it isn't wrong. On the contrary, if I were single, I'd appreciate it, as it makes a guy's role in the dating process easier. We guys can do with some help from you, ladies.

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  • not at all, I wish it would happen more often

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  • if only more girls like you existed, I love girls like you, God Bless You

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What Girls Said 6

  • I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all. Some guys need the extra push or don't think that a girl is into them so they never ask even though that the girl is waiting for them to. But I think that things such as making the relationship official or other bigger commitment questions should be left to the guy because if he wanted to be your boyfriend or marry you then he'd make it known and would make it happen.

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  • I have done that, but usually they don't turn out that well. Even if I see all the interest through texts etc. date is always better when a guy has asked me out to hang out. But there is nothing wrong with doing so, I hate when a guy gives hints and hints and flirts "ye we should do something" alont the lines, I just text wan't to hang out tomorrow. Cut to the chase. but I feel like if a guy is really interested in you, he will ask no matter how shy he is if you gave him all the right signals.

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  • Not at all

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  • Not it takes the stress off him

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  • I think it is totally fine...it shows your confident :)

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  • I wish I had the guts to do so

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