i have been "hanging out" with a guiy since October of last year. At first it started as more of a friends with benefits but then he became very touchy feeling and affectionate. then out of the blue he said he doesn't want a girlfriend. We stopped hanging out for a while and about new years we began hanging out even more. and the more time we spend together the more affectionate he becomes . but the affecionate part comes out ONLY if he's drinking. When we are just hanging out with NO DRINKS he doesn't show any sign of liking me its like we are just friends. but he has asked me when I don't have my son so we cvan hang out and he will know when he can see me, he is always asking me to hang out or make future plans,.for instance we are going to an isdland for the weekend coming up and planning on going to mexico next year, he KNOWS how I fee about him as I have had convos with his girl friends while drinking and he has over heard. My feelings for him are extremely strong and he is fully aware of that. is he just playing me or is there hope. all his friends say to wait wait wait, but how long is too long to wait.. it will be a year in October.
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Sounds like you are playing yourself to me. You are friends with benefits so you got what you wanted. Where is the problem? You think this guy is going to have you for something more when you behave like that. The reason why this guy and you will never be a real couple is the same reason why guys don't marry prostitutes. Obviously you only wanted sex with him. Well, you got the sex. What is your question? congratulations, you scored. He scored too. His deal is nothing. He has no deal. He gets sex whenever he wants with no strings attached. He doesn't even have to talk to you the next morning. BONUS. Seems like both of you are getting what you want. You get the sex. He gets the sex and doesn't have to pretend to actually like you. Sweet deal. Men only date ladies. Men will screw anything. You're just some whore he's banging every now and then. If you want a real relationship, you'll have to learn how to behave like a lady.0
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