Girls, would you date a guy who's skinnier than you?

I'm starting to like this guy a lot.. But the thing is, I know I have bigger thighs than him and I can't get over it.. He's tone and tad muscular. He's taller than me, so that's no problem.. I don't know whether if I should mention it to him or not..

(That's how big my thighs are) link

Especially when I sit down, it looks bigger. Don't get me wrong, I love my body but Idk.. I can't get it out of my head.

Updates:
I know everybody's thighs are bigger when they sit down but I know my thighs are still bigger than his when we're standing. :/


All I'm asking is should I mention it to him or leave it alone?



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Most Helpful Girl

  • Wow that's a pretty skinny guy :P

    In all honesty, I couldn't -

    But it's only because I have an athletic frame, and I'd feel really unfeminine around a guy who is smaller than me - height and build wise.

    Not to say skinnier men are less masculine; they just aren't that physically appealing to me :\

    But in all seriousness, I've probably missed out on some pretty awesome guys because of my preferences for male build;

    So if he's a pretty amazing guy who satisfy's the standards you require - I wouldn't dump him over his body type.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Thick thighs can be a turn on! I deffinitly LOVE thick thighs! I think they look hot :P, he might even think the same

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  • At least this is the most of your worries.

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  • I love big thighs on a girl. Search Brenda Song and Alicia Keys thighs on Google images, they are so hot.

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  • your thighs look good and girls look hot with nice healthy thighs and ass, they are supposed to be bigger than guys. your thighs aren't even that big anyway. you are just insecure and worrying about it way too much.

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What Girls Said 7

  • Guess what? My thighs are bigger than yours...Dont worry too much about it.I don't see anything wrong with your thighs.To answer your question,yes I would date the guy that skinnier than me,i don't care if I like him.

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  • I would and have dated guys thinner than me. I prefer not to but it shouldn't;t be a deal-breaker. I understand your concern but if it were me, I'd just be happy I had a sexy, tone boyfriend that wanted me :)/ If it comes up or you have a self-conscious moment, I think it's okay to mention it but don't freak yourself out by dwelling on it. It really isn't a huge deal...Plus I've heard that guys like girls with a little bit bigger thighs

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  • woaaaaa I was just thinking about that yesterday when my date took me to a soccer game, I noticed it too haha. But I don't care. Only bothered me for a second. lol.

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    • Damn. I guess I'll work on not caring about it.

  • Don't ever bring up things you are insecure about to a guy. It is a huge turn off for them.

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  • Everyone's thighs are bigger when they sit down. Don't even worry about it.

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  • i wouldn't date a guy that is skinnier than me.

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  • who cares as long as you like him and he likes you. he's a guy. girls think too much about their insecurities or whatever if a guy notices...he's not ganna care the way you do about it.

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    • I know, but I can't get it out of my mind about this.

    • then you can do certain things to fix it. but if it bugs and you want his opinion you can bring it up and hopefully he'll tell you that he doesn't care and didn't notice.

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