When the guy I like kissed me, he French kissed me. I did not like it at all! (That and I've never done it before and feel really weird French kissing him...)I'm afraid if I just let it go on, he'll try to go further, and I'm really not interested in that. I need to tell him flat out that I would just like a little kiss, with no tongue at all. How do I do that without pissing him off or making him feel bad?
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Well, first, did you not like the kiss because he was a bad kisser or because you've never french kissed and it just felt different?
I didn't know how to french kiss until recently either, so I can relate. I didn't like it at first because it felt so different. I just told my boyfriend that I had no experience with it at all and he sorta eased into it. Now I love it!
I think you are right when you say you should tell him flat out that you don't like it. Just try to keep your tone of voice nice and calm. I would suggest having this conversation face-to-face. Maybe you could kiss him after you say it so that he knows you do like kissing him and doesn't get all weird.
I hope this helps1