I've only had one serious boyfriend,that was when I was 19 and it lasted a year.I've two one night stands.I am scared because when I go out with friends guys don't look at me.My friends get all the attention,its so easy for them.I could cry right now.I get told a lot how pretty I am but if that was true I would have a boyfriend,I don't to spend my life alone and die alone.I don;t know what to do
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Actually the fact that you can hold a decent relationship for a whole year shows that you're not so bad. Hell you'd be surprised how low the average seems to be. Also, just because you don't get all the attention, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, or that you're not pretty. Also just because you're not pretty doesn't mean you're guaranteed a boyfriend. I happen to think my girlfriend is one of the most beautiful people I've ever met, and she was single for years.
Look just because nobody picks you up, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. You don't have to spend your whole life waiting. If there's a guy you like, and he hasn't made a move, there could be a thousand different reason why he didn't, but these reasons could easily have nothing to do with you. So rather than wait around for him, perhaps it's time for you to make a few moves of your own. Hell there's a lot of guys that dig that, and you'd probably make their day.
Look I don't want you to get down, just because you've had bad luck in the past. If your luck is bad, do as I said earlier, and go get them. Make your own luck. At bare minimum try a little more confidence, and get out there and be a little more outgoing. Just do something. Be proactive. Remember that women can make the first moves too.
Good luck out there.5