Two guys fighting for the affection of one girl. We were both friends with the girl and knew each other (but not how we both felt about her). He told her how he felt first but she rejected him and we hooked up days afterward. She told me about him but that she just wanted to be friends with him. So we date for a month (not knowing that he was still contacting her often). Then she does a u-turn, dumps me and ends up going out with him. This was 6 months ago! She still dates him.
I was really angry at the time. I fetl used like a pawn in her attempts to make him jealous? So I'm not hurting anymore but do I have a right to still feel resentment towards her? She has made attempts to be friends but has never apologized (I've known her years), and acts as if nothing has ever happened. I have declined to communicate with her and don't plan to. But isn't this a genuine reason to not want any sort of friendship with her or should I let it go? If I never had to see her again it wouldn't bother me but we've lots of mutual friends so our paths do cross from time to time?
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she sounds like a bitch. but instead of cutting her from your life.. you should stay friends. but on a limited basis. so just pretend like you're busy when you don'r want to see her. when you do hang with her, make sure you've got a hot chick with you. you've got to date a couple girls.. make her a little jealous. and show her what she's missing. get your revenge like that..2