Guys always talk about how easy it is for girls to get guys. Well, not so. I'm thin, athletic, moderately smart and decent enough in the looks department, but the kinds of guys I always seem to attract are guys who are usually nerds. I mean, I suppose it's because of my nerd status at school? (I'm ranked #1 in my class, making me kind of a big nerd). But like, I despise nerdy guys! They're always trying to one-up me and I'm like just stop. Intelligence doesn't need to be a competition.
Anyhoo, my dream guy would be a jock-type guy but none of them are forthcoming. Thoughts why? Should I make myself less nerdy? Initiate conversation with them more?
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Why do I always get nerds... not jocks? Because Intellect is the kryptonite of Jocks as opposed to nerds who compete with men and women to be the smartest. The problem is in the polarities. You don't want the guy who's always right and also you don't want the guy who doesn't know how to count to more than 3, but can lift all the plates in the gym. You want the middle guy lol. Problem is, if he isn't gay. He's most probably taken.