This is obviously for all girls that aren't white.
If a guy is into Asians, it's clearly a fetish or he wants someone to walk all over because of the submissive stereotype.
If a guy is into black women, he just wants the sexual experience. He's never going to marry her.
Is there one for Latinas? I haven't heard one, but he probably still has a fetish or something.
These seem to be the attitudes towards those types of relationships or they are excuses for not getting into them in the first place. My question is: If you are a non white girl that has been involved with white guys before, did you ever feel like he didn't care about you as a person just saw you as your race and a sexual experience? I'm not talking about one guy here. I'm talking about in general, did you feel that way?
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I'm black. I've never dated a white guy...well I did very briefly in high school but we never slept together, wasn't serious and I don't know if that counts...
To answer your question, one of the reasons I would hesitate to date outside my race, especially a white guy, is because more than likely he's going to settle down with a white girl. Most guys will experiment with all the 32 flavors baskin robbins has to offer only to really get serious with one of their own. It would just be stupid to make myself vulnerable with a guy I would never have a future with.
The "I'd f*** one but not marry one" didn't just come out of nowhere. This has happened to a lot of nonwhite girls who have dated white guys. I am not sure if it's worth the risk just to get used up by a white guy when you could have better luck dating your own.
It sounds all well and good for people to say "race doesn't matter" but when real life experiences show you that it does to many people- which one are you gonna go with?1