So there's this girl we will call "L", which is the first letter of her name.
Anyways, I liked L since the sixth grade (love at first sight thing) I'm now almost 18, and about to enter senior year. So, about a year ago, towards the end of sophomore year, I confessed about my love for her for the past 4 years. (I was 16 then). Now, we where friends but not that close. Anyways L was not an attractive girl at all, she had a regular figure but no face, butt, boobs, and even had a pretty dorky personality, but I still liked her anyways. I even gave her safe haven after the cops busted a party we where at, she had been drinking, I didn't. We had to walk through the woods on a summer night to my house where I let her stay in a spare bedroom until morning when it was safe (my parents where gone to a reunion that weekend). So I just assumed that because she never had a boyfriend, and wasn't getting approached, she would at least consider going out with me right?
She kind of blew me off saying: "Yeah, well, I'm just not that into you and I have been talking a little bit with another guy, so...no".
I was a little bit sad but I got over it, oh well. Fast forward a year and now she has been trying to get in touch with me like I owe her money or something. She said that she's like, totally sorry she was so mean and was wondering if I would be interested to go out with her. I said I'll think about it.
The only problems are these:
(1) she constantly tweeted last year about how "Boys are so stupid", "Who needs a boyfriend when you have friends", "All guys are a**holes" and the liking, so she is a sexist, but then more recently she has been tweeting "I'm so lonely :(", "I want a boyfriend so bad", "Someone please hang out with me!" So she is clingy for attention.
(2) I kind of accepted the fact she rejected me and got over it, I no longer like her and see all her flaws (which there is a lot of)
But I'm not sure if I should still go out with L, I haven't had a girlfriend every and I keep getting made fun of because of it, and I've been rejected by the only ever girl I've ever actually liked, so I don't think this chance will ever happen again. What do you guys think?
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I'm sorry it wasn't right for her to just blow you off like that :(
A lot of (not all) girls who post things like "Who needs a boyfriend when you have friends" are usually the ones who want a boyfriend but are trying to convince themselves otherwise so yeah...
You don't like her anymore and you see all her flaws, I don't think you should waste your time on a girl that hurt you.1