I have been seeing this girl now for a month I like her. I'm usually texting her first should I let text me first. Do you think texting should go both ways ?
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Every relationship is different. Some girls are raised to think that they shouldn't initiate. It's a cultural thing. This does cause problems though, as the guy could take this as lack of interest. Do you know how she was raised?
People make too big a deal about texting, I think. For some, they don't even think to do it unless they really need to get a hold of someone & calling didn't work. The only time I think it would be a problem if she didn't initiate was if she normally did, but with you, she never did. Do you know her regular communication style? Is her level of attraction to you what you're worried about? If she's responding then I wouldn't worry about it.
The only time to worry about it is if for some reason she started treating you differently than what was normal/average for her. Example: She (initiates) texts everyone but you, she stopped responding to your texts, etc.1