He has given me the silent treatment before but if I keep calling or texting he starts back talking to me . I told him it drives me nuts when he ignores me and doesn't talk it out. He is a very moody person , and seems to easily get mad over small things, (like me not texting back soon enough).
A few weeks ago he seemed to be upset with me about something that happened so I decided to give him space (he told me that's what I should do when he's mad, but I think he likes when I keep txting him). I texted him a few days later telling him I missed him and all he said was okay. So I stopped txting him and left him alone for a week, texted him twice, no reply. A week later texted him again telling him how much I missed him , even asking him to just tell me to leave him alone , still no reply !
I realize how desperate I've been coming off and I know I need to stop because his girl friends don't like me and I'm sure he's probably telling them . I'm going to try not to text him again this week but its hard when he won't give me any closure! Why won't he even take the time to tell me to leave him alone?
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He's being a complete drama queen, and as you said yourself, it does really seem like he likes having you in limbo. He likes having you shower him with attention, and he has noticed that if he ignores you, you'll definitely do it. That's why he doesn't tell you to leave him alone - simply because he really doesn't want you to. It's a way to get the upper hand, a way to control you, I guess.
If I were you, I'd forget about him. You shouldn't have to work this hard to get his attention, and if something is wrong between you two, he should definitely be able to talk it out. It's immature of him to just ignore you, especially if there's a problem. If you two are just dating, then imagine what it would be like to have to put up with this in the long run. And if you two are already together, well... how on earth have you been able to put up with it?! I applaud you for trying, but really, I think this is a lost cause. Especially since you've actually been trying to communicate with him, and he has given you no signs of changing. I think it's time for you to move on. If he really did like you, he wouldn't treat you like this. He's simply using you as a source of entertainment and/or as an ego boost.2