Hi folks, thanks in advance for reading and all comments.
Basically we've been over for 4 months and had gone out previously for 6 months.
She moved away to help her dad look after her terminal step-mum and felt she had to give it her all and ended us. (she's very all or nothing). I was gutted, but understood.
It's been no contact, as she wanted her space and I respected her wishes. I sent a letter in Dec saying I hope she's OK and all that, just a bit chatty, she text to thank me, then nothing till this saturday. I get a text saying she's back in the city (the step-mum died, sadly, in November) and would I like to meet for a "drink and catch up".
I've said yes and we're meeting in town on Thursday night. I'm super nervous! I've only ever loved two people and she was/is one. I was SUPER gutted by our break up for like 2 months and up till her text was still thinking of her a lot.
So I don't know what to think going into this meet up. I can't imagine it's anything bad she wants to say, that would make no sense, we've no mutual friends and its unlikely we'd bump into each other as it's a big city. So am guessing she wants to be friends or more than friends? I'm not sure I can be a "friend" to her right now, I'd want more and it would reopen the wound... My mind is a blur, it's wait and see what she says I guess, but some sort of game plan would be good. So, help me out guys and girls, how should I approach this?!
Basically we've been over for 4 months and had gone out previously for 6 months.
She moved away to help her dad look after her terminal step-mum and felt she had to give it her all and ended us. (she's very all or nothing). I was gutted, but understood.
It's been no contact, as she wanted her space and I respected her wishes. I sent a letter in Dec saying I hope she's OK and all that, just a bit chatty, she text to thank me, then nothing till this saturday. I get a text saying she's back in the city (the step-mum died, sadly, in November) and would I like to meet for a "drink and catch up".
I've said yes and we're meeting in town on Thursday night. I'm super nervous! I've only ever loved two people and she was/is one. I was SUPER gutted by our break up for like 2 months and up till her text was still thinking of her a lot.
So I don't know what to think going into this meet up. I can't imagine it's anything bad she wants to say, that would make no sense, we've no mutual friends and its unlikely we'd bump into each other as it's a big city. So am guessing she wants to be friends or more than friends? I'm not sure I can be a "friend" to her right now, I'd want more and it would reopen the wound... My mind is a blur, it's wait and see what she says I guess, but some sort of game plan would be good. So, help me out guys and girls, how should I approach this?!
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