So many women(and men) are so self conscience with their physical appearance. We blame society yet we are society, we choose what is beautiful in our eyes and what isn't.
In the 1930's and 50's, being skinny wasn't attractive....the thigh gaps that we all want so badly nowadays, was what people were trying to get rid of back then.
Curvy was (and still is) sexy.
Skinny is sexy as well.
ALL men think differently about what they find attractive in a woman....but really let's be honest..WHO CARES WHAT A MAN THINKS OF YOU
THIS IS YOUR BODY, YOUR IMAGE, YOUR SKIN, THIS IS YOU!!
If he thinks you need to lose weight or gain weight... You dump 120 pounds of him to the curb. LOL
take Marilyn Monroe for an example....she was the ideal woman and the sex symbol back then. Men loved her and her body type. They never considered her overweight or fat...No. She was curvy and something men were attracted to. Nowadays we would honestly consider her chubby or overweight, it's sad but true in today's world.
You look in magazines, social media, and Tv for the "new look" and what people look like because we are all guilty of some type of change to our style because of a celebrity (their hair, clothes, makeup, etc.) We need to stop looking at other people and comparing ourselves to them to try to find a sense of acceptance in our own image....I'm guilty of this as well.
I'm not saying skinny women aren't attractive at all...I'm merely stating that ALL women should be comfortable in their own body and not try to change their weight just so a guy might take a double glance at them. It's just sad to see women look at themselves and think i'm not pretty enough/he'll never like me because I don't have the thigh gap/ etc. We as women need to own our images whether it be curvy, skinny, overeight, whatever! *((Religious statement coming up ))* We are beautiful and made in the eyes of the Lord himself and we are all beautiful. We don't need ANYONE to tell us differently. So own how you look and rock the skin you are in because confience is beuatiful and so are you! Have an amazing day and know you are loved and beautiful just the way you are.