Why do guys only care about looks?

Why do the guys always look for looks in the girls and not what they look like inside?


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  • That's not true. Sure, the looks are the first things guys notice, but that's not everything. Of course we notice the looks first, as it's nearly impossible for a guy to like a girl like that before seeing her (it is possible, but improbable).

    personally, the first thing that I notice is the eyes (yes, I do mean the eyes). after that, I'm not shallow enough to base a relationship off from what her eyes look like. I want to get to know her. That's what will keep me interested. The looks are only the beginning.


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What Guys Said 3

  • While that might be the case for most guys about first impression, it is also true that looks will get you only to a point. It is the inside what matters after the initial phase. If it is hollow, I don't see any guy sticking around for the bomb "shell", literally.

  • Um guys aren't looking to marry someone at under age 18. Maybe you should get that. They want to have fun, when I marry my girl yes she must be good looking but she has to have a good personality and be willing to talk to. Right now, if you are straight ugly I'm not going to mess with you.

  • That is not necessarily the case all the time. Men see the looks first and may dismiss a girl based on that reaction only because they don't know them. If you have a personality that they might find attractive they need to see that also. The trick is to get past the first judgement and give them a chance to get to know you. If they find your personality attractive then BAM it's all good. If they don't then why would you want to be with them anyways?


What Girls Said 2

  • Probably because they're conditioned to. Porn, TV shows, and video games all portray women as a sexy trophy, no more. So, you are what you watch.

    Date a geek, they're nice and will love you no matter what!

  • Because dudes are visually stimulated. Whereas girls are emotionaly, hence dudes are shallow.