My girlfriend is hot. I want her to dress sexy sometimes, but she stays pretty covered up. What can I do to get her to show off for me more?
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Positive reinforcement. Gush about something you like, something specific.
The #1 reason why a girl may stay covered up is because she believes she's fat. It doesn't matter whether this is true or blatantly false -- the reason is no less firm in her mind even if she's only 90 lbs.
If this is the case, do not address this reason, do not "knowingly nod", do not even acknowledge you know anything. This is key.
Now, focus on ONE thing you like about her physical person. Pick something you've heard her say she likes, or at least that you have not heard that she dislikes. Necks and shoulders are safe bets -- sensual and yet neutral -- or if you really wanna go for the gusto, breasts. If you're not sure, go for shoulders.
"Oh, honey, I just love how that shirt shows off your (part). You look so hot!" Then maybe growl and kiss her all over (part).
These statements not only express how sexy she is, but that her sexiness is tied in with HER CLOTHES. You can bet, once the message is reinforced enough times, she'll buy an item or two that will (tastefully) show off (part).
Note, be sure to keep on with the same part-choice!!! Otherwise, she'll see right through you.3