Forget having a handsome mug or a face of a pretty boy. If you are short, girls will not notice you *as easily* as if you were a 6 foot giant. Guys who are cute and short have to work much harder to get a girl to notice him than a guy that is cute and tall (which makes him hot). Being a man of short stature 5'7, and a good face, I definitely don't stand out in a crowd. But if I go talk to a girl she notices my face and cha ching.
So I've revised my list of what women want accordingly:
2. Good face
3. Nice body
5. Social status
6. Personality (coming in dead last)
Am I not wrong?
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Dude you've totally missed it... you've got it right but the list is wrong.
What I mean is that personality does come first and you've proved the point in your post.
What are women attracted to personality wise? Confidence, optimism, funny, fun and so on.
Now you say that you get the chicks when you go talk to a girl and she notices your face, WRONG, she doesn't notice your face (first) she notices that you have the BALLS to walk up to her, even though your 'physically challenged'. If you had a nice face and you walked up to her like a p**** (signs of nervousness, awkward tension) then nothing is going to work, even your so called 'good face' (gosh, I hope there's more to you than your face)
You can get girls with that face, but later that face is going to age and wrinkle, then what are you going to do? You've rely on your face for your confidence to approach women, but that means when you lose it, you're going to lose all that confidence.
Personality is what women rate to be most attractive even if they don't know it. It doesn't matter how he looks, if he can make her feel special and good about herself nobody else can, nothing else will matter.
Now I don't disregard looks totally, I agree it's on the list. It's just not first, maybe second.. or somewhere down the bottom.
Buddy, I don't want you to go through life thinking looks is top matter, if you concentrate on looks, your height is only going to hinder you if your think it does. If you don't take time to master your emotions, your mind, self beliefs. You'll see the world only through your eyes and you'll feel nothing, nothing meaningful, no deeper meanings.
Not too long ago I was just like you, I had all sorts of physical features I wasn't entirely happy about. And so I spent most of my time unhappy and working on my appearance. I had enough and realized that it wasn't my appearance that was the problem, it was me. I got my internal issues sorted out and I was even more dedicated to changing how I thought of myself.
My life has never been better. - "Your world is only the projection of your mind"17
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