This isn't a problem I'm looking to solve, I'm just wondering if other girls would react the same as me.
So a few weeks ago my boyfriend came to stay over (I'm at my parent's house over summer) and my friend and her boyfriend came round to hang out.
This girl is a childhood friend and she's great, really down to earth, but she's also VERY hot. Great tan, great hair, but she does put a bit of effort into looking good (whereas I brush my hair, shower... that's it). Anyway, later in bed I asked my boyfriend if he thought she was prettier than me. I mean, it's a matter of taste, she's quite dark and I'm blond and pale etc. He said yes she was prettier.
This didn't really bother me because I know without even asking him that that's all he thinks of her, and there are many reasons that he's with me and no one else. I was just wondering whether any girls would react the same as me, or would it be a big deal to them?
Bear in mind even my MUM has pretty much said this girl is beautiful (more than me!).
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well...it shouldn't be an issue at all...and what you may think as hot may or may not be hot to a man! Preferences will also change based on cultures..For example in South Asian countries where people are crazy about pale skin you may be considered the prettier one..
I think one thing that we must learn is that there are bound to be better looking people than us everywhere and love is not a thing that happens because of good looks. Just seperate the looks part from love...Your boyfriend need not think you are good looking to love you! What has love gotta do with being beautiful! My boyfriend is very open about his opinion on other good looking women, and that doesn't mean he is trying to go to bed with them. I've been considered pretty by family and most people I know. I'm really tall, slim and tanned . but my boyfriend finds red heads and pale skin the most sexy !but that doesn't mean he loves me any less. beauty is beauty and love is love, the two must not be interconnected.2