How to tell a girl that you think she's pretty, without sounding creepy about it?
quick question for all of you. If a random guy just walked up to you and just said "you look cute today", would you think he's a creep? if so, what... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
If it's someone I've never talked to (especially if it's some old guy), I'd be freaked out. However, if I just had a short conversation with you or somehow knew you, you'd have made my day (as long as you don't have a reputation of being a player). Even though I may not express the gratitude you deserve at the time, it doesn't mean I don't believe you or am unappreciative, it's just that I'm probably very surprised (and probably slightly trying to figure out if you're being genuine) at the moment. Hope that helped :)
What Girls Said 5
If a guy went up to me and said that I looked cute, that would make my day :)
That happened to me! I was really happy for the rest of the day, and I was just so confident. I think the way a guy should do it (if you don't want to initiate conversation) is say something along the lines of "Hey, I just really wanted to let you know that I think you look (insert adjective pretty/cute/beautiful) today. Not to sound like a creep or anything, but I just really wanted to tell you that."
That's how I would do it, if I were a guy :)
If you said ''today'' I would be creeped out, because that means he saw me before today and I haven't seen him ... stalker? Haha
But if a guy walked up to me and said: ''Hi...what are you listening to?'' (I always listen to music), --and this often happens, I always engage and we have a nice talk and listen to music together...
And then exchange numbers (if we're both single then)...
If you really want to concentrate on commenting on her looks, just start a conversation and as you said, lastly compliment her by saying she's cute/pretty/beautiful/enthralling...
i don't think it would be creepy at all but only if you plan on making further conversation. girls love getting compliments but only if they know them or are about to talk to them
What Guys Said 1
Say a "cute" girl would physically rate as a 7 and above, as in, prettier than 70% of women. And say 100% of men found her cute and told her. How many such men would this girl come across every day? At least 10, possibly 50. Say only 1/10 has the guts to tell her... that's still a lot of men telling her, and none of them getting anything out of it.
I have a suggestion for you.
You wrote about a random guy who thinks a girl is cute... and hello and initiates a small conversation... AND THEN you added "before he leaves he just states that you are cute".
Well I have an AMAZING IDEA FOR YOU.
It will work a lot of the time. Maybe not all of the time, but some of the time is better than never. Here is what you say... instead of "You are cute".
"Give me your phone number, I wanna talk to you again".
While handing her a pen and paper, or handing her your phone set to record a new phone number. Ideally, you should have asked her name a few sentences prior.
Just do it. Do this to 2-3 girls a day, you'll easily get 6 numbers a week. And instead of being a guy who tells random girls they are pretty, you will be a guy who gets to date one of them.