What are the top three things guys look for in a girl?

Just wondering what are the top 3 things/qualities you look for in a girl. And don't just name them, that would be boring, why would you pick those top 3 qualities over other characteristics. I'm just curious, thanks for your answers ;*)


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well, I like a witty sense of humor. I like it because it shows that she's spontaneous (to a degree), funny, and plus it goes hand-in-hand with the next quality:

    Intelligence. The smarter the better, as long it doesn't cause her to develop a "better-than-you" attitude.

    No girly girls: I don't much like girls who are only into girl things and divide a clear line between what's "masculine" and what's "feminine" and stay on their side. She's gotta be tough, with an "I-don't-need-no-knight-in-shining-armor" personality and be independent. Basically, she has to WANT men but not NEED them.

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What Guys Said 6

  • for me :

    1. I don't want my girl to be frighteningly skinny so that it looks like I might break her by just giving her a hug...

    2. She should not be quite either, she should have her own opinions and be able to voice them! I don't like for a girl to expect me to make all decisions and her to just sit there and look pretty (although I do like her to look pretty)

    3. She has to have confidence in herself and not worry about everything that she is wearing, most girls don't understand this but guys like how you look in the morning after you wake up in ur pajamas... We are very simple to please and you seem to like to take it overboard lol

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  • Most men: Boobs, sex, and beers...

    Me: I love personality because it says everything about her. A girl isn't a girl without her own personality.

    Exceptance is another thing...I don't want to go out with a girl who can't except me for who I am. It's not true love unless there's exceptance on both sides.

    And I love the eyes...something about the eyes just makes me hypnotized...maybe it's just me being weird...maybe it's me being me...I just love them.

    And I know this is four, but I love the hair. A girl's hair is so beautiful and..well...shiny. =P

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  • top 3 thrings I lok for in a girl would be:

    - a strong and wonderful personaity, some1 who is compatable in relation to myself and has an attractive personality

    - smile and eyes, I like a girl who has very nice eyes and when they smile it is like their eyes smiling at me as well

    - attarctiveness, their really is no point in going with some1 if you aren't attracted to them like

    gd question

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  • 1. uh a really cute face and not fat

    2. independence and kind of free not like falling into peer pressure

    3. a good flirter. like some one who can uplift you and themselves at the same time

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  • Archer gul... my 3 is: 1. A great attitude (No unresolved issues, hang-ups, or any lingering drama)- a lady gotta know what she wants, how to live, and especially how to have fun. When a girl has that down, it makes any man wanna be around 'em. 2. Independence- a man wants a woman- not a mother or a child. I like independent women because they aren't threatened by my life, or my friends. And I'm not threatened by the life she chooses to lead. That's something I'm looking for (no control freaks or guilt-trippin broads). 3. Good looks... It's obvious. I like a woman who can dress, who ain't ashamed of her body. If I'm dating a girl, I'm not gonna be shamed of her/her looks, so she shouldn't be. She should care about how she looks.

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  • 1. Whether I personally (or someone else personally) is attracted to the girl.

    2. Whether she has a depth in her personality

    3. Whether she is funny (again, it depends on what the guy thinks is funny).

    A goth guy might want a goth girl because she has a goth sense of humor, if that makes any sense. But I think looks, personality, and humor are very important because if you're attracted to the girl you'll want to be with her, if she has depth in her personality you'll be able to understand each other and spends lots of time with each other, and if she has a sense of humor you appreciate, you can have fun with her easily.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Don't know 'bout the other fellas, but this is what I look for- 1. Realistic expectations. We live in a society dominated by fantasy and the outrageous. The so-called "reality show" craze feeds into it. Whether it's guys doing dumb stunts (a la Jackass), or girls doing dumb things (Charm School, Sweet 16), lotsa folk are living fantasies, and wonder why they don't work. Now why I want a lady with realistic expectations? Because she is set in who she is, she isn't wanting some dude that don't exist, she don't have delusions of grandeur dancing in her head- I've dated a few ladies like that, and they are very irritating at best. A girl with realistic expectations is what a man wants and needs. 2. Passion for life. No man wants some diva that's so self-absorbed he can't do anything with. Also, what good would some chick with no fire do a guy like me? I hate them weak-minded girls (them typa chicks usually have a lotta baggage, something I can do without)- girls with no passion or direction in life usually are the "bad boys" wet dream- they are easily duped, and molded by insecure control freaks that can't stand next to a real woman. Most guys love women with some fire (this one LOVES women who are independent, fiery, and very passionate- in the bedroom and in life in general), some backbone, some courage- and are very demonstrative and very secure in what they believe in/who they are 3. Loyalty/Faithfulness. In this "dog-eat-dog" world, loyalty is usually overlooked. Kinda like with us dudes, that old saying of "Nice Guys Finish Last" comes to mind. But, a man wants a ride-or-die chick- one that he knows will be with him to the end if need be. Too many guys just wanna "hit it and quit it"- but a real man (one that displays a backbone and stands and acts as a man, and takes NO CRAP off anyone, including his girl) wants a lady such as this. I been trying to find one myself- that's why I'm single now. tired of the Divas, the crazy/damaged chicks, and them gulz that just WANT to be abused/taken advantage of. Hope this helps ya.

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    • Dont know about anyone else but it definately gives me plenty of insight....I know it wasnt directed towards me but I'd still like to say thank you....soo.... Thanks =)

    • I like your statement about men, but I hope you're not implying I'm a crazy/ damaged chick or any of the other stuff you wrote after that, otherwise, thanks It was just a simple question. lol. Thanks for your answer. ;*)

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