I wasn't in my top shape before we've started dating, and now I've gained about 7 lbs on top of that. We eat out way more than I did. He works out all the time and has an awesome body, whereas I'm about 5'6, 137. I've been really overworked and stressed and I'm finding it hard to time to work out (I have about 10 more hrs in my work week than him). I know I can find time to work out, but it means not doing other things I find enjoyable.
I know he wants me to be as fit as he is, but how long do I have before he starts to be mad at me for it?
if he loves you then you both will work something out and he will be there for you to help you when you decide on a plan.and be supportive of you on your way to a healthier person without being mean to you, but if you say you will do it then try and commit to it, and he will help you every step of the way and encourage you as the results happen. it will work out for you, just don't worry too much.
Ignore that. 5'6 and 137lbs is not fat...and nowhere near it. If he has 10 more hours of free time than you, and complains about you not working out or staying in shape, tell that fool to work as much as you do and see if he still maintains his regimen. By the way, he must not be black lol.
This happened to me, yes I was somewhat disappointed but I didn't leave her, she was still my baby and weight was going to stop that. If you are worried I suggest working out for 15 minutes before you go to work and 15 minutes after,do that about 3 or 4 times a week. I even helped my lady lose her weight by being her workout buddy, if this guy values you he'll be there regardless.