I wear them and just started wearing wigs every once in a while to be creative so I can wash and treat my hair more then when the hair is sewn in for month, but I do get really insecure when I start dating someone because I don't want them to feel I'm trying to be someone I'm not plus I get worried when they try to run their fingers through my hair. Also I normally date white guys so in my mind I'm like oh God please don't judge me I'm not bald I swear lol For the most part I only wear them in the summer to avoid over styling my hair from the humidity and heat, and when swimming since I have thick curly hair. Also me being of color I have a harder time growing it out and using extension is the best way for me to speed up the process. I think if I lived on the west coast I wouldn't wear them as much since we get so much rain and humidity over here my hair always turns into this huge Afro lol
I wear extensions for more fullness, and to be honest most people are shocked when I tell them I have them in because it looks so "natural" I think you should do what makes YOU happy and if a guy likes you he will look past your extensions.
I find it funny how some guys are like, no I want natural beauty blah blah, yet the girls they've dated probably wore make up and eyelash and crap, those are" unnatural" too, so those should be a turn off as well right? And most guys don't care if a chick gets a boob job, but that's natural right? Haha what a joke.