Detecting sexual tension?

[Anonymous]

I get this feeling that me and this girl have this strange tension towards each other. We don't talk much, because we are so awkward with each other. She's shy and I'm shy. When we pass each other we just look into our eyes but then she breaks it and looks at my chest? We laugh together, and when we talk there seems just to be something in the air that I just can't explain, but usually we don't talk a great deal because it gets awkward for some reason. We have known each other for few years and went through a phase where we flirted a lot, and joked with each other, but we didn't see each other for a few months, and the tension has changed, more from her I'd say. Could this all be in my head? When we pass or talk to each other I get a funny feeling inside!

[Mikaychay95]

If anything it seems as though you both really like each other. When you say that you get a "funny feeling" when you talk to her and that "when we talk there seems just to be something in the air that I just can't explain" those are both signs that you are attracted to her in some way.

[Asker]

I'm deeply attracted to her, but I dont know if she is too me? However we are in an impossible situation, where I cannot do anything about it.
Maybe this is the problem that we know we can't do anything.

[Mikaychay95]

IF you both are shy then chances are she's also attracted to you and doesn't know if you feel the same. Or at least she did before you went a couple months without seeing each other. I wouldn't give up her though, you two sound like the perfect couple!

[Asker]

Thanks, she is literally one in a million!

[Mikaychay95]

Well then I hope everything works out with you too :) you seem like a great guy who she would be extremely lucky to have

[Asker]

Blimey, thankyou very much :)

[Spudthegreat]

Dude.. if you think that there's a tension in the air and you have a funny feeling whenever you see her. That means you're in love with her. you need to talk to her more and try to overcome the awkwardness. And when the time is right. Move in. Hope this helped a little :)

[Asker]

Thanks man

[Chris011]

It could all just be in your head.

However, i say you should approach her anyways. You never know..