Dating an Aquarius Guy?
How did you attract him? Girls who've dated an Aquarius guy, what was it like? How do you attract him? I just met an Aquarius guy, and though I'm not going to change for him, I want a few pointers.
What attracted them to you?
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Hi! My boyfriend is an aquarius! :)
You attract them by being interested, but having other things to do. They don't like someone who's 'always there' because they like independence! They like the chase, so don't always let him have his way and be a bit hard to get. They like to socialize so if you like nights on the sofa, think again lol. They like it if you get on with his friends, are friendly (they can't stand miserable people! ), they like intelligent people, they don't really like showing their feelings especially loving ones, so don't expect flowers or anything like that lol, they like time apart from you - they will want time alone with their friends/family, they like to think they are always right lol, they make very loyal friends and have to be friends with you before even considering a relationship, don't try to make them jealous as they don't get jealous and will just leave you, thinking you are playing games lol, don't be needy.
Basically he wants a partner who is also his best friend, has her own life and doesn't have to see him all the time, isn't too emotional and is friendly and sociable. Also, they like to feel needed sometimes, even though they will never seem like they need you lol :)
I'm into astrology as well, But I ignore most of it because I am a scorpio and it says scorpio and aquarius are the worst match lol! So I wouldn't read too much into it!
I hope I helped :)
What Guys Said 1
Hey what's wrong with Aquarius I'm a guy and an Aquarius, why does that matter? You are talking about Aquarius as in the horoscope right, is there something different about a guy if he's an Aquarius or what I honestly have never heard of this before, please inform me.
What Girls Said 7
Distance…Oh be prepared for lots of space dear
Intelligence...They need a good ol’ chatter about all the problems in the world and a good stimulated conversation
Happy people…(sad people, so depressing)
They say they like Popular people…Pfft yeah right…they secretly prefer the unusual ;)
Impersonal conversations…Oh yes! They wanna know EVERYTHING about you. They don’t want you to know much about him tho. Ha! Typical.
Unpredictable people…Who is Predictable? BORING. Unpredictable people makes them think “I wonder what she meant by that?” and will question til they figure out why.
Mystery...they don’t like open books
Just be yourself
Aquarian motto is “Just stay true to yourself”
I am friends with an Aqua man and he lured me in, HA! I wasn't really interested but then about 4 dates into it over about a 4 month period I became hooked. But, him being an Aquarius, I am afraid to push him away. I want to keep things the same and maybe see them slowly grow. But, I don't feel like we ever spend enough time together to really grow at all. hmm I am baffled as what to do, I guess all I can do is be patient...And that is hard for an Aries. But they say we are compatible? Any ideas as to how to spend more time with him without him feeling pressured?
I like his aloofness, I love a good chase. I get bored quick...just don't want to be barking up the wrong tree, either he is "just not that into me" or is it just his traits?
I am a Leo woman who has been dating an Aquarius for 5 years now.
We get along very well, it's almost scary! We are very a like in many ways though in Horoscope compatibility we are not compatible because we are opposite signs.
Leo is fire and Aquarius is wind.
Aquarius are aloof, they seem very detached physically and emotionally and don't like feeling tied down. They don't like clingy or jealous women for their sign is very independent, any attempt to restrict them will cause them to run!
The last 5 years I have learned that an Aquarius man needs to be stimulated mentally above all.
His inability to understand emotion may cause trouble between him and his partner but as long as you're patient, respect his privacy and give him the freedom he needs, you will have a wonderful future with a loyal and loving Aquarius man... I know!
They are weired. Honestly, the guy I met is Aqua and nothing special. I'm a Virgo. When I saw him for the first time staring at me, I was running away from him. Then he turned around and didn't look at me. The fact that he played me is probably what attracted me the most. Normally, I have to tell the guys to back off. This one lured me in and then backed off then lured me in again then back off. For some reason comparable to other signs with this Aqua guy I don't feel as if ever was there a beginning but not even an end.it's like up in the air.and if it happens one day.oh well.it happens, if it doesn't it's like who cares; what attracted him to me was my looks and personality; however, be prepared for a rude cold shoulder. He acted as if he likes me. He told me bunch of true stuff about him (I checked some of the info) even though he didn't have to tell me anything. We had a great time together until I left his town and then.puff.like magic.gone. Has me so confused. Honestly I linger over it because I don't know why he would not even talk to me. I didn't do anything. He is so rude. I don't think Aqua guys are good friends to girls. All I wanted to be is his friend. He brought it to the next level of us getting closer (no sex though) and then backed off once he didn't get what he wanted. I'm so pissed and offended. Hopefully not every Aqua is like this one because this guy is bad. So good luck.
Man have you got your work cut out for you! well wel where do I start! don't even start to think of a relationship untill you have at least one text or email or phone call do I need to say anymore! they are selfish arogant rude cold people and I don't understand them! not for trying honestly I've tried believe me and all that I've done is push them further away and I'm devastated! I'm so in love with him it hurts so bad but I've pushed him to far! come on to strong if you like so girlys BE WARNED THEY BITE AND IT DOES LEAVE A ! good luck and any info that works for an arogant aquarius LET ME KNOW! XXXXXXX
he was flirty and sexy and new what he wanted! and then when he got what he wanted he wasnt interested he was and still is very col d arogant and rude to me when I see him! don't even waste your time! because the silly thing is I fell for him hook line and sinker! and think of him every day and wish I could be with him again! but you have no chance he has got what he wanted and that's all he was interested in! so good luck to you!