Guys, How do I know if men find me attractive?

[tues_clues]

I have a boyfriend, but I still am a very sexual person and I get turned on if I think men are attracted to me, or want to flirt with me. That's not to say i'm going to cheat or anything... it just makes me feel good to know if someone finds me sexy!
So i'm wondering, what is

the best way to tell if a man finds me attractive or if he doesn't?

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p. s. I am not sure if I'm attractive at all... I really doubt myself a lot. This is a recent photo of myself.. I think I might be too fat and its okay if other people think so too. They can be honest <3

[matt1209]

If your dating someone why would you care if someone else finds you attractive. Sounds like your unhappy. Maybe you talk to your current boyfriend about it. Does he make you feel unattractive?

[Anonymous]

Well, you certainly look good in that picture. If you think you're too fat, might I ask, how tall are you and what are your measurements?

[tues_clues]

I am 5' 3, 130 lbs, and I don't really know my measurements. I have a bigger bust and smaller butt, but I have wide hips. So i'm trying to do work outs to improve that area. I am really self conscious about my weight, but I don't want to be too thin either

[Opinion Owner]

That's a pretty good weight given your height. How much would you like to weigh? If you don't know your measurements, what are your bra size and pant sizes?

[tues_clues]

I am a 36C cup, and my pants are usually between an 8-10 because i have wide hips! lol
I don't care so much about weight, but more about fitness.. Like I want to look like someone who is strong and has strong legs, etc.

[Opinion Owner]

Nice! Classic hourglass then! And on a petite frame no less! Sounds all good to me--not sure where your main concerns are.

[tues_clues]

thank you :D i guess i'm just self-improving and was curious what others thought, and whether or not i was already attractive or appealing at all

[Opinion Owner]

Ha! Got it! I'm all about self-improvement as well and agree that you have to have goals! Follow me back if you'd like to discuss further.

[Opinion Owner]

Love the first pic in your new question, btw! :D

[tues_clues]

Oh thank you 😇😍😁

[Opinion Owner]

You're very welcome! The guys must LOVE you, huh? :D

[Depressed-Dude]

You look gorgeous to me and I would date you in a flash!

[Anonymous]

You are very beautiful young woman.
You have a sexy body and seem to have good height.
How tall and what's the figure?
And you like men?

[Dominik02]

I find you very attractive pretty face and a bangin body very sexy! I know you would have me running some sexual thoughts running through my mind

[gabeepperson]

he flirts he's he has a boner or he stares

[tues_clues]

thanks! i guess, a follow up question would be.. if i'm out with my boyfriend do men still look at me if they think I'm attractive? or are they too afraid to look?

[gabeepperson]

they probably look it's just low key since ur an attractive women

[gabeepperson]

you are very attractive don't second guess ur look because beauty runs deeper than the surface

[tues_clues]

Thank you! Wow! Yes, you're right beauty is deeper than looks... I will try to remind myself that :D

[gabeepperson]

okay gl

[tues_clues]

LOL are you really 13? you're so sweet thank you doll!

[gabeepperson]

your welcome

[Anonymous]

You're not fat, you're just not stick thin

[Opinion Owner]

By the way, it's not just you that enjoys the compliments etc.. of others. It's everyone. No one likes to admit it though, really

[Anonymous]

Looking for attention...

[Depressed-Dude]

That's unfair. This woman is simply looking to verify her thoughts on whether people think she is attractive or not, there's nothing wrong with that.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol read her opinions on other questions

[tues_clues]

I was just wondering what other people think of me... its okay if you think that.

[Opinion Owner]

You are attractive, and you know that :p

So I do think you are looking for attention

[tues_clues]

i don't know that for a fact i'm attractive... i tried to put the best picture of myself that i could. of course i don't look like this on an everyday basis. but thank you for saying that i am attractive, i was just wondering

[Depressed-Dude]

You look really pretty in that photo. I see nothing wrong with the way you look, naturally pretty.

[Anonymous]

well you made my dick hard ;)