Hey girl! We seem to be in a very similar situation rn. I'll try to give you the best tips I can, however, if you're shy (like me) then some of these tips might be difficult to execute. I think honestly, if you want to flirt with someone, you would want it be obvious but you don't want to appear too keen/ or desperate. Since, you work together, flirting may be slightly difficult depending on your work environment. If it's a really social environment then here's the things you could do:
- Depending or whenever or not you guys are close/ friends- you could simply start with the "hey, how was your weekend" sort of thing. This is an easy conversation starter which could either go into a really good conversation or go to a dead end- try your best to maintain conversation. So if he says he did something e. g. Went down to the beach, you could really just do the classic flirt move of suggesting he invite you next time- if you say something like this, make sure your tone is really light and you laugh a bit- doing this will let him see that you're flirting but he won't be able to tell too much if you're 100% interested- this will make him more interested
- also, when you guys talk make sure you maintain eye contact and you could do little things like but your lips or try to emphasise your good areas.
- Another thing you can do, is simple touches. So let's say he needs help at work for something, then you can sort of lean closer to him or touch his shoulder/arm for support etc. you can also do the playful touches when he says a joke or something like that
- Now you can also do the eye contact glances. You can do the 3 second face glance where your eyes move around his face. This is supposedly flirty, and he will defs feel something if he likes you. You can also make sure that you smile a lot anyone you guys make eye contact
- another thing you can do is throw in compliments on new stuff that you notice about him. It's not exactly flirting but it sorta is subtle flirting which shows your interest
I really hope this gives you some sort of idea on what you can do (:
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I would say be obvious if you are into him. Sometimes guys can't take a hint, even if they like you. Depending on how aggressive you want to be, I would do things like rub your hand on his chest or press up against him while you are passing by at work. If that does not warrant a response or action, then I'm not sure what will.
make small talk about the area, and how he is liking the job. And if he is interested he will give you some type of indication during the small talk. But if you ask you in a direct way with no flirting, no nothing. Guy may just see you as just being a friendly coworker and thats it.
It might just be best to ask him to go out or hang out sometime. But then again that lead up to the whole thing could be really good for starting a relationship. A good way though is to just talk to him and smile at him a lot and it should be pretty easy to tell if he's into you. Remember: If you beat around the bush, it might not go anywhere, especially if he's the same way. GL!
Stop doing that! Your making him think that all women are just flirtatious and likes to be treated like whores.
Let him know that you like him or not, he's going to enjoy your attention and go fucking another woman that same night. Not his fault, how is he supposed to know wether you like him or not? He thinks your just very friendly.
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My honest opinion is if you're gonna flirt you should make it obvious, otherwise you're just sending mixed signals and it will be seen as a mind game. What you might mean is you want to flirt without doing too much so you don't come off as desperate. I'ts hard for people to tell you what to do since they don't work there and don't know your setting, if you're not a good flirt maybe just be nice to him, smile a lot and give sexy eye contact, that way he knows you like him.
EYE CONTACT. this is pretty much the most apparent sign of attraction but make sure not to stare to the point it's creepy. If he looks back at you for a moment, smile just a little bit. And look away. If he doesn't catch on to that he's blind or has some shyness going on. That's the only way to flirt without talking to him that I can think of. I'm not good at flirting with words so I don't know bout that.
Being obvious is good. If it is something reciprocal, give him compliments on how good he smells, looks with a particular outfit, talk with him and lightly touch him on his arm, look at him from a distance and look away as soon as he notices and smile as if you know he caught you, smell good and look good when around him and be interesting.
Ask him to hang out, not go on a date.
And do that sly flirty stuff like touch his shoulder and giggle around him and all that other gay shit.
Hope that helps.if your not obvious he won't get the hint you have to be blunt with guys
Smile and laugh at his jokes, make a conversation with him, and just be yourself! Rest your hand on his arm if he says something funny.
Like every other person said, don't hint just do it. I myself beat around the bush for too long and I don't get to see him anymore. I don't regret it. But I do have that "we could've been something" going through my mind every time i think about him.
Don't "hint" at him, and don't try to be subtle. Just ask him out!
Eye contact, smile, say 'hey' or/and do a cute little wave. Get close to his friends if you can
Umm flirt in a way he doesn't know you're flirting?
Why wouldn't you want to be obvious? If you are not, he will be confused and never approach you because of that.
Just tell him you have a crush on him. Guys like to feel wanted too ya know
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