A guy who u think is out of ur league
How do you snap his attention?
And how to get closer and closer?
How do you snap his attention?
And how to get closer and closer?
Girls, How do you get closer to your crush?
find opportunities to talk to him casually. if you're shy, get to know his friends first and therefore get to know him a little better and maybe snatch his snapchat or contacts or smth so that you can text him.
also make sure you look extra good when you know he's gonna be there. have a nice scent that isn't too strong and sometimes walk fast paced but close to him while passing by, and leave the nice scent hanging in the air. trust me he will notice.
be kind, caring and helpful to others normally, and especially if he's around.
glance at him occasionally and make eye contact. when he looks at you play with your hair, look down and maybe blush a little to show your interest. make your body language open and towards him. create opportunities for him to talk to you.
appear friendly and open-minded, and last of all just be natural and be yourself. be the best version possible of yourself when around him to grab his attention, and let him know how amazing you are.
it doesn't matter if you think he is out of your league. who knows, he might've always thought you were cute or something. even if he didn't, he might after he realized what a cute personality you have after you snatched his attention and attempted to get to know him better.
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currently studying psychology, and those who are ranked/rated as a 5 will be paired up with a 5. this is because they view themselves so. though, i do believe that going after someone who is 'out or your league' or a higher rank (based on attractiveness) is possible! it really depends on your confidence in yourself as well. just act natural and be yourself. i usually snap boys attention by getting up and sharpening my pencil, walking very feminine and just smiling. confidence and a smile is the best thing to get anyones attention. best of luck!
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Story of my (current) life, haha.
I just kept sticking to him, talking to him so he got more & more comfortable around me. It's a slow process, but I think it's getting me somewhere. At least he's not opposed to spending time with me alone anymore & his reaction towards my suggestion of going somewhere together has gotten a lot more positive.
I guess it also helped that he doesn't really consider himself to be out of anyone's league- I once told him he's extremely good looking & he agreed when I mentioned he underestimates his looks. & then he changed the topic to the fact that you can drink yourself, beautiful, too, not only others. :D & we both share a huge, very similar sense of humour. That's certainly helping, too, haha.
So in short, just make yourself present in his life. Talk to him, stay close to him so he won't just forget you & keep pressuring forwards, but be careful or you might scare him off, lol. -
Try to relate to them with their opinions on any subject most of the time, but not pretending to be someone that I'm not then once I keep communicating with them a little everyday about new things I say hey do you have a snap chat and that usually works. After we each are added then whenever that person posts something on their story it will help you to get to know them more better, you find out more of what their interests are or how they spend their day and you can chat them making a comment or opening a start of a conversation, usually works and guys have kinda done this to me too! soo... it's better than an address or number right away it gives you more time, makes you feel more comfortable, or at least less awkward at times, and then you could be like we should hangout sometime or we should go (an activity) some time then after 2 or 3 days pass by you can plan a day, time, and place
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Just be yourself and don't try to fit in with him. Ask him how his day is and tell him yours. If you like him, get to know him, then tell him how you feel. Let things come to him and you naturally. Don't force it. Be happy with what you have and share that with him and hopefully he can enjoy your stories, too. Good luck!
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Find out what interests he has and play up to those. Additionally, be extremely confident!! When you see him, push the thoughts of "He's out of my league" out of your head. If you're assertive, then something about that will make him interested, trust me. I've done it this way before.
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Just flirt with him and dress nicely to get his attention. Just be yourself. If you can, try to get his number. Or you can just tell him you are crushing on him. Good luck!
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literally just went through this, just make him see you, text him rind reasons to talk to him but don't be obvious about
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- act confident
- talk to them
- make friends with their friends
- make them jealous -
write to them, call them, visit them, and just talk to them. Spend time with them and ask them about their hobbies and dreams
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befriend his friends! thats a way to get closer to him without being too creepy
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1. I don't believe in leagues.
2. Usually the guy I have a crush on is one that I was friends with first and I would probably just tell him that I like him.
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