Is it bad to ask a girl why she is hesitant to go out with you?

[Anonymous]

there's this girl that I met a month ago, and we have been playing phone tag. whenever I text her she doesn't text back and whenever I'm busy she texts me. I believe she is interested in me,but she's playing games. I thought about being direct with her and asking her why she is hesitant to go out with me, but I think this makes me seem needy because I've only known her for a month. I also think it makes me sound like a wuss. is this a bad idea to tell her this?does this make me sound needy and wuss?what are some better solutions to this problem?

[User00]

I'd straight up tell her you're attracted to her and ask her out. Women respond to honesty, and whether she is interested or not, if you ask a direct question you'll get a direct answer and won't have to continue on like as is. It'd also help if you could come up with something for you guys to do that she'd really be interested in.

[bananagirl]

i'd say just go for it .

it doesn't make you sound needy,

it just makes you sound interested,

and like you wanna figure out if she's interested as well .

straight forward is what will bring you places in life . :)

[Anonymous]

I think any good relationship works with open communication. She may not be playing games, and just busy. You won't seem needy, maybe she thinks your not that into her. Tell her how you feel.

[ItalianBro]

Next time she makes an excuse about being busy when asking her out, just tell her to message you when she's free. If she says "I am free next week" than that's a good sign. However, if she doesn't give you a day than you have to show less interest in her.

[martyfellow]

I think with a game player, a direct approach, in front of other people where she can't run and hide, is the best way to go. You will find out what is going on. You might never see her again ,but it will put an end to her game playing!

[Anonymous]

Don't use the word out it's depressing "out". Go with DATE yeah a couples seat kinda thing at the cinema or restaurant. She might have had a good number of out guys you need to be the Date guy...