The reason why it's confusing to you is because guys are saying that they will date *curvy* girls, not fat/overweight girls. There is a huge difference that some people tend to overlook. Curvy is not synonymous to fat. Most would call me curvy because my waist is much smaller than my hips/thighs/butt. I'm not overweight, but no one would consider me the super skinny girl either because of my figure.
That's why there is so much confusion, because people have different definitions of the word curvy. I feel like when men say curvy they mean women like Scarlett Johansson or Eva Mendes. When women think curvy, they use it as a nice way to say fat, and are thinking of people who are more on the overweight side, like Queen Latifah. I don't think men lie, I think women misunderstand what men are describing.
I don't know about other guys but for me it's this:
With girls that are slimmer are what attract me. Also I'm willing to over look some personality flaws because I'm psychically attracted to the girl. With bigger/curvy girls they may have the same personality flaws but I won't overlook it as much because I'm not really attracted to that.
Basically I don't like girls bigger than me. It's shallow and all that but I presume you wanted honesty and not lies.
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