My crush blocked me for a year, now he's unblocked me? Confused!

[Football_Lover]

A guy I liked four years, he knew, he blocked me from seeing his statuses but didn't take me off Facebook.

We haven't spoken for a year and I was considering deleting him.

Two days ago he unblocked his statuses, I can see them again.

What's he up to?

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Why would he even bother to take the time unblocking them again if we don't even talk anymore?

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Any GUYS have any advice? :):)

[smokahontas]

wow he seems like a jerk. if I found out that a guy liked me for years, than that would kind of make me happy I guess.I think you should delete him for even blocking you just because you liked him :/

[Football_Lover]

I'm not good with guys and he was a little freaked out by me liking him so much, so he blocked me for a year, but the other day unblocked me. It just doesn't make sense! I'll never stop liking him, but I just don't know why he even bothered you know? I don't talk to him, life's moved on, thanks for your help :) :)

[Football_Lover]

I'm not good in the sense that I scared him away by trying too hard to impress him :( :P

[smokahontas]

maybe you should ask him online why he unblocked you and don't try tooo hard to get a guy, kind of play it cool like you don't care too much ;o

[Football_Lover]

I would, but I think that's what he's expecting me to do. He really loved it when he got all this attention, I was the only person who liked him at Uni. Maybe he just missed the attention?

[smokahontas]

well did you stop giving attention before he blocked you?

[Football_Lover]

No, that was why he blocked me : P I did a really stupid thing one day and saw him in the library, went up to him when he was at the computer, talked to him but then there were really long pauses. When I got home, I saw he'd blocked me. I was stood there for 20 min not saying much, I can't blame him but it was the wrong way to go about it, he should just have talked to me. A month later he sent me a text saying he just saw me as a friend. Maybe he just wants to be cival now? It has been a year.

[Football_Lover]

We were quite chatty throughout the four years, he would talk to me and say things he wouldn't say to anyone else. He was one of the 'cool' ones but didn't have to act cool in front of me and that's the side I fell for.

[smokahontas]

well still he blocks you for that one time at the library, that's kind of messed up I mean you guys talk for 4 years and he just is through with you for one night? I don't get it, I think you should just be civil with him and not talk to him unless he makes a move first.Dont ignore him like say hi if he ever walks by and that's all but don't show that your ever obbessing over him

[Football_Lover]

That's what Mum said as well. She said it sounds like he wants to open up communication again. The other week I helped him on a friend's status and he just said "Like I said, French... or whatever." Maybe he felt guilty for being horrible that night and trusts me enough to let me see them again? I don't know, I don't think I'll ever understand him but thanks for trying with me! :):)

[smokahontas]

np, maybe your mom is right

[Football_Lover]

She could be, or (and bad as it sounds this is what I want) he has always liked me but could never admit it to himself or his friends because I wasn't cool enough? I can't bump into him, he lives miles away from me :(:( But I have to remember how stupid he was handling my crush, I can't fall like I did again I just can't! loll

[Football_Lover]

Maybe she is. Is it bad I'm hoping he has always liked me? It would make sense. He might have matured slightly, and realized that you don't have to be cool all the time... Reputation isn't everything. I don't know, no I can't fall for him like I did, that would NOT be healthy : P

[Anonymous]

nothing. it doesn't mean anything. don't over analyze. it DOES NOT mean he likes you in any way shape or form

[Football_Lover]

But why would he bother unblocking me if we don't talk?

[Opinion Owner]

why does it matter