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My first Real kiss was an 'experience,' a rush of adrenaline but I didn't know if it was a good one or a bad one. It was however with a guy I really liked, was really attracted to, and was quite charming. He was just more experienced than me (as I learned he was a bit of a swindler or player haha) so it was more like seeing what a great kiss would be like and me just experiencing it rather than both of us jumping in cold and unprepared. After that I was definitely excited to try it more, though!
You probably just didn't like it due to inexperience, once you get used to doing it in a way you enjoy (and more importantly WITH someone you enjoy) you will love it. It is a natural human way of showing affection and it gets better with practice-just like sex, or any other form of physical intimacy. :)
my first french was about a week ago with my friend's step brother... and no, we're not dating.
we were just kind of talking and one day we were hugging, the next we kissed, and the next thing I knew, he had his tongue shoved in my mouth.
it was really scary. I felt like I couldn't breathe and it was just sloppy and wet. I've done it one or two more times since then and it's not as bad, but I don't love the guy and it doesn't feel right to me.
i don't think he knew it was my first french kiss, otherwise he wouldn't have been that rough and surprising with me.
My first kiss was gross too. I didn't like the guy so I think that has a lot to do with it. I've made out/ French kissed 4 guys so far and I only enjoyed it with one of the guys because I've known him for like 2 or 3 years, the other 3 guys I barely knew so I just think it wasn't the right person no biggie :)
It just means that the guy who did it was rubbish to be frank. Either tell him about it or try to force him into what you enjoy midkiss.
Was it a guy who does the *shoves tongue down girls throat* kiss? Cos I don't enjoy those much either.
It has to be like tongues dancing in spit rain xD
It was great, I like french kissing :-)
As long as the girl isn't trying to choke me with her tongue...
It has to be just perfect, not too much tongue, and ending it with a real passionate kiss, then I can go on for a loooong time :-)
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My first french kiss was amazing. I was 13, completely in love with the guy (Never ended up dating him, he was kinda using me, sadly it was okay with me). He brought me close and we started kissing, then got more aggressive, and then incorporated waves of tongue :).
Since then, I've been with guys who kiss like over excited dogs and others who just shove their tongue down my throat.
I hated my first french kiss, too! And actually, all the other french kisses I had with that guy. But now, with my current boyfriend, I can't get enough of them.
Try slowly gliding the tip of your tongue across his upper lip. Or just touching the tips of your tongues together while you kiss. The lighter, "teasing" stuff like that is so much better than smashing your tongues together or getting his whole tongue in your mouth, haha.
Mine was wet and a little yucky but overall it was okay after I got use to it. It was kinda a shock to me and that's probably why I didn't enjoy it as much.
Mine was pretty nice, although my memory of the event has been fading somewhat, I think it was like seven years ago. We were kissing normally and sort of naturally progressed into french kissing.
It was unbelievably amazing.. for me and her because it's all we kept kissing for I don't know how long.. and we moved to the bed.. her lying on top of me (clothes on still) and kept kissing.. it was easily one of the most memorable and awesome moments of my life! =D
I love french kissing but the texture of the tongue sometimes seems too wet if you know what I mean. Although like I said I reay still enjoy it. I don't thinj experience makes a difference.
Tongue aggression can be a problem. try just slightly mingling the tip of your tongue with his at first.
Mine? not so great either. Granted we were 12 and 13 years old...
It was awesome, loved it, and I wanted to make out for the rest of the day. Maybe you didn't like it cause he was a bad kisser...
My first french kiss was great.. not too much tongue and not too rough. But there have been bad ones, like this one guy did nothing BUT tongue... it was like "DO YOU HAVE LIPS SON?!"
So ya it feels good if it's done the right way, it was probably nervousness. If you are relaxed just do what feels good then you can work it out. Definitely help guide him like some of the other posts suggested.
I was 16, an unkown girl did it to me and I loved it. (it was a Greek kis, in fact: she was Greek)
it made me gag once...
It was wet lol, but okay.
yucky!
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