Why can't you give it to him in person? You will get a better gauge by his expressions and body language when you offer it to him. It also is a bit more personable If it does 'freak him out', I guess you have your answer whether he is interested. If he is surprised, he just may not believe that a good looking girl (you are good looking I am guessing here) has an interest in him. It is a NORMAL reaction of a guy to have a good looking lady actually show interest in him.
Last and most important, it is more safe than trading info on Facebook. There are too many stories already of people being murdered, kidnapped, raped, etc. by people they met on FB. Keep meeting him in person and exchanging information and talking. You will get to know him better while protecting yourself.
inbox it, don't put it on his wall.
I've been friends with this guy for over two years he had my digits before and after a while we lost contact. Recently, he was really flirty and I kinda took that as a sign, and since we've met before and we're friends I thought " what the heck, he probably knows by now I like him" ...well I sent him the message over FB. well, obviously I was wrong, he never texted, called or even bother to reply to my message :(...I hope you've better luck than me! :)
You know what I would do? Send him a message with your number in it& nothing else. If he's interested then great he'll make the next move. If not then you had more balls than he did & you can be proud of that.
Its just a phone number, not a commitment. If he were to freak out over it, chances are you wouldn't want to date him anyways.
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If he likes you, he will definitely call you without thinking about how he even got your number. He will be like...have her number..must call now. However, whether he likes you or doesn't like you, I advise you DO NOT send your number via Facebook as that is highly impersonal. My advice is to talk to him personally and drop signs that you would like him to ask for your number. Reason being, is that in my personal experience, the best relationships I have had are the ones where I had to take the first few steps, and girls that just threw themselves at me or called me all the time first, just never work out for me.
I think you need to go in the opposite direction: play a little hard to get and let him pursue you. Men are engineered to pursue their women so gently back away a little and let him come after you. If he doesn't, then he's probably just not that into you. Good luck!
I had 2 friends do it to me.. But I did like how one did it..
She started a conversation with me in FB chat... She kept it going for a short time.. Then suddenly she said this...
"Hey sorry but I have to go.. Really sorry but id like to keep talking to you so here's my number ... ... Go ahead and text me when you can so I can get your number to.. So we can keep chating..
Of coures she has I boyfriend I already knew about but it still was a good way to send her number to me
I think it'd be better if you gave it in person, but that might just be me. But as for your update, yes, guys definitely like it when a woman takes initiative or is proactive about something she wants (not too much, but for example, giving her number without being asked for it).
Same thing happened to me. I am really shy and I started talking to a girl I was into, added her on FB and chated. She gave me her number over FB. We have been dating for 2 months now :D
Yes! If you want to be clear that you're interested though, make sure he knows you're "giving him your number" and not just exchanging numbers as friends. There _is_ a distinction, at least in the head of many guys.
Of course you can give it to him. You've met him in person so I can't even see anything that could be considered strange in this. I hope everything goes great for you!
Send him hit me up, with your number and it won't sound weird but in a pm or be like yo I don't think you have my number hit me up
I had a girl give me number over fb one time and I didn't mind but what happened is I forgot to write it down and then it got deleted in my chat
"Is it OK to give a guy your number over Facebook, that you are interested in?"
Yeah, why wouldn't it be?
Everything is fair in Love and War. Goal is to get him whatever it takes.
It's really fine. It's actually not a big deal at all. Much less than you're making it out to be.
You might aswell give the number. At worst. we won't ring you.
Fo sho it's aight but little mama don't be too for word be sweet and chill and have some good time with my favorite nizzle.
It's OK to give him your number! That way you will know is he interested or not...
Yes give him your number especially since you hung out with him 4 times already. Heck a girl gave me her number the first time I ever met her and I wasn't weirded out or anything.
Itz better to give.. So that you can know him very well before getting out..
yes, just give him your number :) nothing wrong with that, I think.
Sure why not, it won't affect you in 5 years.
nah your good
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