GUYS when drunk, would you hold hands with a girl you didn't fancy?

[Anonymous]

basically, I got the major hots for this guy but he's very hard to read and gets so drunk he does some outrageous stuff. on the same night he playfully touched my boob (to get a fiver I put in my bra) and walked down the road with me holding hands (I can't remember who initiated)

does he like me? yay or nay please!

[Dylan1989]

Not to break your spirit or anything but people make out and have sex with people they're not attracted to when they're drunk. I'm not saying he doesn't like you, he might do, but when people are drunk they do things they wouldn't normally do.

[Asker]

aw man, no fair play I need a reality check. thanks.

[Dylan1989]

Or you could look at it this way. Is he shy? When he's sober he may not have enough confidence to even make conversation with you but when he's drunk he may let his true intentions be known.

[Asker]

he's extremely shy. he doesn't even usually make eye contact with me :/

[Dylan1989]

Well then there's your answer. Alcohol boosted his confidence that night. Perhaps he does like you afterall, he's just too afraid to show it when he's sober.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Well... I'd probably do more than hold her hand.

Y'know...

Best way to judge a person is approach them whilst they are sober or tipsy.

[Asker]

what if you have been friends for a while and are ridiculously shy?

feel free to tell me I'm clutching at straws.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Hmm. Have you ONLY held hands with this guy or have you done more?

It's hard to tell without knowing the both of you but I would say a safe bet is to see how he reacts to you when he's drunk, but not so drunk he doesn't know quite what he's doing. That way he won't have inhibitions and there's a likelihood any 'true' feelings will come out. Whether they be good or bad.

[Asker]

have done nothing more. I think that is a good plan, I'm just so afraid of rejection I'm scared of giving him the tiniest idea that I like him. it would hurt too bad to know he really isn't interested. thanks, I will keep you posted.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Cool.

I understand the fear of rejection, but I suppose that's where alcohol comes in. Removing your inhibitions and such.

[Anonymous]

Nah I wouldn't say that means anything sorry. Especially since he was drunk.

[Brando]

When I'm drunk, I become outgoing, talkative, and whatever else happens. I wouldn't read into it much at all since he was drunk. Being drunk is like a whole different world lol.

[themastaplan]

oh you fancy, huh?

[Asker]

me fancy big time

[themastaplan]

:P hahaha