Is it actually pretty hard to get a white decent boyfriend if you're an mostly average Asian girl with no outstanding qualities? By outstanding qualities, I mean traits such as beauty, great intelligence, or being rich?
I don't find myself attracted to Asian men for some reason, and rather white guys more sexually appealing. My mother tells me that no decent white guy with a good paying job will marry an Asian girl unless she is incredibly smart or knows what men want.
I have never had a relationship, yet and I'm 22 years old. I feel like my choices in dating are extremely limited because of the fact that I'm Asian and that decent white guys don't really approach Asian girls. My mom is making threats of playing matchmaker for me and talking about the Asian guys that come to church (*gag*), she believes I'll never find a guy or get married because I am very shy and don't know how to flirt.
Asian men around here just don't seem to meet my level of needs whether it be looks or viewpoints. I don't know what I should do, should I just settle for Asian guys, even if I don't find most of them attractive, or should I keep searching even if it may take forever?
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