Why would my boyfriend ask me what size ring I wear?

[Anonymous]

i got into a pretty serious fight with my boyfriend the other day, we almost broke up and I planned on never talking to him again.

but we talked things through and made up. things aren't the same but we still love each other and want to be together.

anyways he asked me what size ring I wear.

why do you think he would ask that especially if we just got into a really bad fight

[luvu209]

He might want to get married. If so, he probably feels like marriage will somehow change your relationship. A lot of people are like that. You know how some girls decide to marry their boyfriends after they get pregnant? As if that's somehow going to make the guy want to stay with them more. Your boyfriend might feel the way you do that something about your relationship has changed. I mean, it must have been some argument if you were considering never talking to him again. He might just feel insecure about you guys' relationship now, and feels that getting married will make things more stable. My guess is that you are not ready to get married. Ask him why he is asking you about your ring size? If it is because he wants to marry you, you need to make it clear that you are not ready and that getting married will not change things. Then again, he may just want to get you a present? Just to make up, you know? That's why I would ask.

[Pedantic]

Sometimes your affection for another is most keen after it has nearly been lost. Taking that feeling and acting out on it can lead to this kind of thing. Unfortunately, there is a lot more to following through with being someone forever than just wanting it. Life planning, in-depth relational analysis (could this argument just as easily happen again?), and so on.

[madhatters4]

he wants to buy you jewelry. he probably wants to give you a gift as an apology

[gaginitup]

Might be poping the question soon.