Is my crush playing me ?

[xosuhleste]

I like this guy & we have been talking since Christmas.

We both told each other that we really like one another but then he told me it's can't be nothing serious because he's going to end moving in a 4 months but he wanted to continue talking to me as if we were going out and kiss stuff like that. So it's been already these past 2 last Fridays we've hanged out and liked kissed and made out with one another nothing more than that... But in school he doesn't even say hi to me we have one class together and he just ignores me not even a hi . Lately he's been acting really shady like when I text him he takes forever like hours to text back... Like today he was at my soccer game I had no intentions to txt him after but then he txts me like an hour late after my game good game? Like I'm I suppose to act normal I wanna play hard to get but don't know how ? Help plz?!?

He claims we don't see each other during school so I honestly don't know what to do I really like him and I think he likes me too so please let me know what I should do?

[animalwithin]

Perhaps your incessant proclivity to use "like" as every other word is turning him off ;) In all seriousness, this guy just isn't into it 100%. He knows he's going to be gone in a couple months and isn't willing to invest in anything emotionally, even though you're really pretty. He just wants to keep his distance, maybe so that you don't get attached or that he doesn't get attached, or both. There's nothing wrong with you or how you're behaving. He's leaving soon and his behavior is indicative of that, there isn't much you can do. I wouldn't say he's playing you, things aren't too serious between you two to that extent.

[indian_empress_91]

I agree with you. But he doesn't even say hi to her in school and assuming in public, like I don't think short talk gets you attached. I think he's just taking a little bit advantage of the situation. I think QA should not continue if she knows that she's invested or could be or get attached or feel disappointed in the end,

[animalwithin]

I think she should move on and find another guy as well seeing as he won't around for long this won't lead to anything anyways.

[kovalinkie19]

Well it could be a number of things. However, I think that he may not want to be getting too attached... Although playing you is the second guess. You sound like a nice girl but guys sometimes try to use that against you. If he's worth the trouble then talk to him, you've only got 4 months after all. Good luck!

[MmaTender]

If I had to venture a guess, it sounds like he is trying to keep you a secret. If a guy really likes you he's going to smile at you without even knowing he's doing it. It's interesting you asked if he's playing you... Not if he's interested, almost as if your own mind is trying to tell you something...

[MrAtticusLebowski]

"But in school he doesn't even say hi to me we have one class together and he just ignores me not even a hi..."

WTF?! are you serious? why are you even wasting time on this guy. Don't invest your time and emotional energy in people that won't even acknowledge you in public. Guy sounds like an ass to me you deserve better honestly. Really...he's too good to say "Hi"?

[NerdInDenial]

Why don't you pick a different guy? You obviously have the looks to do so. To answer your question, he may think your playing games too, or he might be playing hard to get so he doesn't seem desperate.

[Chris011]

Perhaps he's playing hard to get? Or he might just not be that into you.. Idk, us guys can be quite confusing sometimes as well. Maybe he is trying to play games with you so that you would chase him? Guys do that kind of stuff..

[Anonymous]

if I read it right your trying to play hard to get, guys don't like that, so from doing that from his point a view your "showing" your not interested

[blondfrog]

He is playing with you or cheating on you

[Cowboy6666]

He is only using you for sex motive.