Women are you really attracted to a soft kind heart type of guy?

[blondfrog]

The type of guy who isn't that mach bad boy type us guys are different we are really attracted to that soft hearted cute type of girl not the bitchy type and who is nurturing

[Anonymous]

I like a guy who's balanced. A good, kind heart is a great trait in a guy. So is confidence and some assertiveness. I'm very interested and attracted to guys with the right combo of those traits.

One without the other is iffy, though. I'm not into jerks, so confidence without kindness is out. I dislike cruel people and generally avoid them. A guy who's very nice but has no backbone isn't appealing either, though.

Balance works best for me. A soft side, but not without some steel, too. Not that easy to find, I guess, but worth it.

[Anonymous]

I'm a bit of a pragmatist, so a super softie and I may not be the best match.

I like genuinely decent people, though. The kind who try to treat everyone fairly and have some integrity. But not the so-called "nice guy" types who think their strong urge to do any and everything for a girl they want to sleep with makes them special.

[vishna]

I'm attracted to nice men. If he has a gentle soul that is the cherry on top. Most of all I want a gentle guy, I want him to have the passion to fight for something, but I really want a gentle guy.

[COCOCHANEL]

yes. I love soft and boyish like he was sheltered all his life. my boyfriend is like that.

[Anonymous]

Well, so far we have one honest female out of four, who admits that the nice guys are just the fallback, the second choice who gets the scraps after all the jerks.

[narc-slayer]

I agree. A lot of girls get an ego boost by having fling after fling, the whole time knowing they have a "nice guy" to fall back on.

[Anonymous]

If I'm in a place in my life where I don't want anything serious and just want to date casually, then I'll be honest, a "bad boy" can be fun to be around... But if I'm thinking of the guy I'm going to marry, or even someone who I will genuinely fall in love with, then a good, kind hearted guy is all I want :) I could never fall in love with a bad boy, because I usually don't respect them.

[Anonymous]

We really do like gentle guys, but there is a BIG difference between being soft hearted and not having a backbone. I tend to go for guys that are sweet, but passionate about what they care about. Bad boys are just to fill the time.

[Anonymous]

Yes, we really are.

And of course all the guys who answer this will say something like "they're lying, they only like assholes." Don't listen to them. I'm pretty sure WE know what we want in a guy.

[chocolateismylover]

Yes, very attracted.

[blondfrog]

I believe you =)

[chocolateismylover]

=)