Ex's phone has been off for days. Should I go and see if he's alive?

[Anonymous]

Ex's phone has been off for days. I'm stupid for worrying but I am. I just wanna make sure he's alive. Maybe he changed his number and he really doesn't want me anymore. Either way It would still help for me to get over him. The only day I have off is Sunday, and by then it will be a full week that his phone is off. Bad idea? Please honest thoughts.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes it wouldn't hurt but most likely he's moved on
but yes so sad when you break up with someone
they say the number is turned off but most likely
he's blocked you from calling you or maybe he
changed the number it's really hard to say but
i think it's a good idea you want check on him
you still have feelings for him that won't change
for while

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I do agree don't go chasing him cause your still in love with him
you need to let go, i know it's easier said than done

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Don't go chasing after someone who's clearly demonstrated they want nothing to do with you.

[Asker]

He did it on purpose?

[Asker]

I think I need a HUGE reality check and it's gonna hurt so bad :(

[Claires1225]

I actually checked on a guy who didn't talk to me in two weeks (mainly because he was in the military) and he was just fine. He actually was dating another girl and realized he has a thing for Asian girls now. I thought he didn't have a preference. But yeah leave that alone he doesn't care and neither should you. it will take time you will get over it. I promise.

[Asker]

Ha. He's in the military too. Ok. Thanks for the advice.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

There's times where the guys in the military can't contact you. But he should have had some idea about that beforehand.

[Claires1225]

I am very aware they can not contact you. But he is doing just fine and to put it this way he even tried to lead me on by saying that there may be still a chance. So yeah girl don't wast your time. You are way better than this.

[Claires1225]

I gave him tons of chances and he still treated me like shit. soo yep.

[Asker]

Well either way he didn't tell me anything, so he doesn't care. Sigh, just wasted more time on him again.

[Claires1225]

its ok get your self busy and this is just a learning experience. Don't worry you did nothing wrong your still young. And there are tons of men out there. There is always an upgrade don't let anyone tell you different. I have been through it and I am fine and ten times better and you will be too. ^_^ trust me. Keep your self busy.