This is always a touchy subject, usually girls like a guy to be confident and assertive, which most shy guys are not used to acting like. So it depends on if you are willing to ask them out or try and drop hints to them so they will ask you (which most girls do anyway). I'm kind of that type of guy, (shy), but if a girl shows interest in me I would ask her out. Just chat and flirt with them, mention you are free on the weekend and are looking for something to do. show interest in them and get to know them. But remember that many shy guys are so shy that they may not ever ask you out. Most guys have the understanding that they need to be assertive and go after girls, so they think that's the only way they can get a girl. So they may not realize when a girl is showing interest in them, since they may not be used to noticing it.
Although preferences, etc. vary from person to person, shy guys generally like big hints or for you to simply ask them out. If you're good friends already, then they already like you, so it's up to you to show your interest in them. Clearly. Hopefully they will get up the nerve to ask you out. Shy guys usually like somewhat but not too aggressive girls. Some big signs are biting the corner of your lip and then looking down when you see him, complimenting them a lot on things you don't usually, or gently touching their thigh or shoulder while talking. This shows more romantic interest, but in a shy way. It'll get them thinking about you in a more romantic fashion, and give them confidence.
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There's a secret to finding "Good Guys." It's the shy ones. The shy ones are the guys who want to play video games, build forts, walk in the park, lie outside staring at the stars, just go for a long drive, have movie nights, cuddle, play fight, play pranks, hold you close, hold your hand, fall asleep with you, stay up talking all night until we get loopy and talk crazy, sing back and forth to each other (even though we sound horrible), spoil you, not because we want to win you over but because we love spoiling people we love, and always be there for you. Sure, we're not as confident as the other guys who go up to any girl they can to get a number, but you have no idea how much confidence you can boost in a guy by going up to him. Plus, we are great in bed because all we want to do is please you.
I am a 42-year-old shy guy.
I have no female friends. But I have decided to face my fears and do speed dating. And I'm freaking out. I also can't get over how small your hands are and cute. The thought of touching you scares me.
The quote tells you a bit about shy guys.
Once we trust and are comfortable around you, you will see how nuts and crazy we are. I'm a happy, cheerful person. I like having an enjoyable time. I love having my inner child out. I love hugging and physical affection.
I love holding things close to me. I have a dirty mind too
I do chat with women online but find them too severe and dull. I like to have a light heart chat and joke around, but I still haven't found a woman to chat like that. Too serious and adult. After away I find it boring. I like to spice it up. And be our happy serves. But still have adult conversations. But she doesn't understand what I mean buy all that. You probably don't understand ether.
I do respect others around me and their boundaries. I am self-employed too. We may shy away from things we are not comfortable with or doing. We may not seem like it, but we are still shy. I am a confident, shy man who walks with my head up. I dance in front of everyone in the gym without a care in the world, and I can't dance.
Just be patient with us. Don't judge us make fun of us, laugh at us or hurt us. We need time and trust honest and compassionate. I can stand up for myself and not be afraid to end it if mistreated. There is a lot more. But this is some. Show us that we can trust you.
Show us, be there for us, support us. We are not weak. We are strong. We are not low-level men. We are man enough; we are worth it. We are human. But in a shy way. It takes a strang man to cry a weak man not to. I still have a lot to learn about women.
Nerdy, shy, introverted guys go for girls that make the first move.
Im a shy/nerdy guy and my type of girl is cute a bubbly but intelligent. Don't know if this would help, because all guys like different types.
sometime shy guys don't know what to do. so if you want to find out, you could just make the first move.
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